Inn that my boyfriend thinks you should share everything?
And I mean everything. Like pass codes and messages. When I wanted to pay for something with my banking card, I held my hand above the machine so no one could see me typing my code. Back outside my boyfriend said: "Oh so you're one of those people." I'm like: "What do you mean?" He then said that I'm one of those people who hide stuff and then continued by saying: "My code is ****" and then expected me to do the same!
When I'm using my phone, he sometimes looks what I'm doing and then notices that I have 5 unopened messages on Messenger. Asking me if I'm not going to open them and expecting to do it in front of him. I objected of course, I don't want someone to look at things my friends are sending me (come on, I don't think my friends would like it if they knew that someone else knows what they are sharing with me. What if they share something very private that only I should know about?). He even made me unfriend one of my former male classmates :/
I had a discussion about this with him and said that privacy is very important to me. He told me that he never got why people are so entitled to their privacy and that it's a stupid thing. He thinks that when you're in a relationship, you should share everything. Messages, passcodes to all accounts and obviously bank accounts as well. We were together for a month at the time. Is this normal? Anyone had some experience like this?