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Is this common or should i feel particularly lucky or flattered in any way?
Or is it just their way to make sure I'll do it back?
My wife loves oral and I will go down on her daily, she loves it so much and has immense orgasms as it lick, suck and nibble her clit.
I would always go down on a women, I love the taste of pussy, it's making me hard now thinking about it
I can only get off sexually if I'm performing dentistry. So my opinion is somewhat limited on this subject.
Why is it so unbelievable to you that someone who likes you enough to go to bed with you, would want to do everything possible to please you?
I like your question!
I would assume that most men ar too lazy for oral, or that oral is not always fun for them. But now with all your answers, I was clearly wrong. Good to know!
BUT there is one thing that worries me a bit. Oral sex is not necessarily safe sex!
I mean, does anyone EVER take the time to cut open a condom an use it as a barrier and blah blah blah...
Oral is great, but it helps spread some diseases, that's why I've always thought it would be better kept for steady relationships... I've always thought that... but I've ended up letting them go through with it anyway :)
Not being available for dating, or wishing to 'cheat' I honestly haven't given much thought to 'safe sex'. You'll have to have someone else help you that one, sorry.
On the internet: ( http://hivinsite.ucsf.edu/ )
Giving oral sex (blow job) to a man has been proven to carry some risk of getting HIV, although most scientists believe the risk is relatively low. The risk increases if the person giving the blow job has any cuts or scrapes in his or her mouth, even small ones that can be caused by brushing or flossing right before sex. To have safer oral sex, avoid getting any semen in your mouth, either by stopping oral sex before ejaculation or by using a nonspermicidal condom. You can use an oral barrier such as a dental dam or plastic wrap to make oral-anal sex (rimming) safer.
Giving oral sex to (going down on) a woman is also relatively low risk. The possibility of infection is higher if there is menstrual blood, if the woman has another STD in addition to HIV, or if the person performing oral sex has sores or cuts in the mouth. You can use an oral barrier such as a dental dam or plastic wrap to make oral-vaginal sex (cunnilingus) or oral-anal sex (rimming) safer.
I was just bringing in some medical facts to promote a small debate about whether it was risky or not, as a practice among single human beings engaging in intercourse within non-committal relationships.
Since you seemed reasonable and sensible, I wanted to include you in said debate.
Most men are shit at performing oral sex on women, it's like that old tootsie roll pop commercial about how many licks it takes to get to the center.
For many guys it's... 1...2...3... stick it in.
Many women never experience an orgasm from receiving oral. Personally, I am reluctant to get to intercourse until the woman has had at least 3 orgasms. My current paramour is quite the squirter so it's extra rewarding to see if I can run her dry.
I'm a very oral person. I would consider it perfectly normal if I was on a date with a female and I liked her enought to end up in bed together, that I would please her orally. I always felt like "I'm doing this for the fun of it, and she's going to enjoy it too"!
Yeah, it would be ungentlmanly of him if he didn't! (Don't let him if you've just come of your period... seen the aftermath of what could happen, not pretty! I couldn't tell how embarrassed he was there was so much blood on his face lol) why, wouldn't you go down on anyone the first time?