Inn for intervention to have gone awry

had an intervention for niece who used to show so much promise in her 20's . we have given her money but I think she is used to the handouts. her father has also said she drinks a bottle of wine all by her self at least once a month.she was so pretty she could have been a model. She's really put on weight ( she is a size 10) and she works at a low level job . she had a good job several good jobs but they all closed. she had a nother job that she quit because she claims they weren't paying her but I heard a different story. I wish she would just get married so she would n't be seen as such a failure . she has all these talents and she isn't even using them.most of her friend s and us family have decided to cut ties with her until she gets her stuff together. She was offended she cried and told all of us to get out. she also doesn't think that she is fat because she is almost 6 foot and a lot of the weight is in her boobs. but she really has gotten fat.