Infatuated

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I am infatuated by a gay guy!

We'll yeah at first I don't wanna admit it to myself but later on the feeling has been intense that I can't get him out of my mind!

I don't know but I started liking him when he treated me we'll differently special?(i guess so).He always tease me and later on he'll tell me he miss me.(He was promoted to a higher position and we seldom see each other to just joke or play around).

One time,he came by to me and he said that he seriously miss me,that he no longer get to hear my voice and that he no longer get to see me.My response was "oh really?"? He was so serious at that time that I felt he terribly miss me.

There's also this one instance that he held my hand when we were at a gathering.

At the office,there were times that he'll come to me and kiss me and hug me.

I don't want to invest my feelings in this kind of situation that I know for fact that he's gay and that he'll never really fall in love with a woman.

Im now trying to avoid him but how.We're in the same company.

Im now desperate.

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  • CountessCoolout
    13 years ago

    Are you really so shallow that you can just turn feelings on and off? What's wrong with being infatuated or even in love? If you're like the rest of the world you have an infinite amount. You like him, he likes you. It's not an engagement, it's a good friendship. What's the problem here?

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  • sososo
    13 years ago

    Maybe he's just clingy or maybe he feels the same way towards you as you to him? Even if he isn't bi, its not unheard of

    Only one way to find out - ask him.
    If he doesn't feel the same way as you, if he's your friend he'll realise all the kissing and hugging needs to stop

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  • nocharge
    13 years ago

    His behavior is unethical. That's his problem. Don't make it yours.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    hes gay hes gay hes gay hes gay

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  • *Cinnist*
    13 years ago

    He could be bi, or maybe hes one of the assholes who make straight women squirm. Just because they want attention from both. Maybe its best just to stay out of that potential mess.

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  • smartiepants
    13 years ago

    Maybe he's bi, or you could, in the words of Cobra Starship, "Make them gay guys go straight".

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