You can't help those that you love- just know with all your heart that in their heart that they are trying to help you. going to prison doesn't mean squat. When you have been through abuse ( I was raped twice and also had an abusive boyfriend) you start to figure out what is important to you. Stay away from what isn't.the two rapist boyfriends and the abuser never went to prison- my current boyfriend who had a very troubled past before I met him is truly the greatest man that I have ever known. and as far as Hating your ex... the ability to not feel that overwhelming want to knock your lights out feeling when you see him all depends on you- you are the only one who can control your thoughts and your actions and your feelings. My ex of four years did me horribly- threw me out of a moving car for goodness sakes- and I am completely 100%% over him, but the thought of dotting him the face does cross my mind sometimes when people talk about him I don't feel like he owes me anything anymore though- because the longer that I continue to think that he does the longer my brain allows me to associate with him even if it isn't in person.
Incarcerated, Him and Our Marriage
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You can't help those that you love- just know with all your heart that in their heart that they are trying to help you. going to prison doesn't mean squat. When you have been through abuse ( I was raped twice and also had an abusive boyfriend) you start to figure out what is important to you. Stay away from what isn't.the two rapist boyfriends and the abuser never went to prison- my current boyfriend who had a very troubled past before I met him is truly the greatest man that I have ever known. and as far as Hating your ex... the ability to not feel that overwhelming want to knock your lights out feeling when you see him all depends on you- you are the only one who can control your thoughts and your actions and your feelings. My ex of four years did me horribly- threw me out of a moving car for goodness sakes- and I am completely 100%% over him, but the thought of dotting him the face does cross my mind sometimes when people talk about him I don't feel like he owes me anything anymore though- because the longer that I continue to think that he does the longer my brain allows me to associate with him even if it isn't in person.