It's been a few times over the years. I cold cocked a co worker at my house after work and scared my wife to death, simply because he made her face turn red and look down for some comment that she still won't tell me he said... yet another time I took things too far.
I don't think you are understanding; I know that confrontation is justified in these situations, but the extent that I take them to is not. An ass whooping is often deserved. Torture and permanent damage is ( usually) not. I need to fix this before I wind up in a lot of trouble.
You see, when you are a guy like me who turns the other cheek so often, people begin to see you as someone who they can push around. It is only a matter of time before you lash out on these people. Think about it.
If you really care what people think about you. If your insecure with yourself, that you think you have to beat everybody up or else your not masculine enough.
But you gotta be secure with your masculinity. Just dont care what people think about you.
Being nice is nice.
But I agree with you defending your girlfriend at the time. Sure you didnt have to damage him that far.
And I agree you didnt have to punch the guy for making a comment, you couldve still told him off though
At least you taught the dude a lesson that he shouldnt be groping random chicks.
In that I'm a very nice guy but have uncontrollable anger at times?
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Dont let people tell you your masculinity is toxic.
Your masculinity is this situation is perfectly acceptable
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So uncontrolled rage is masculinity?
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Did I say uncontrolled?
Maybe OP just thinks it's uncontrolled cause he's been brainwashed by the Judge and some cucks.
Maybe. Maybe not
Question is, does OP know of any other time where he couldnt control his anger? And what where the situations, and how many times?
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It's been a few times over the years. I cold cocked a co worker at my house after work and scared my wife to death, simply because he made her face turn red and look down for some comment that she still won't tell me he said... yet another time I took things too far.
I don't think you are understanding; I know that confrontation is justified in these situations, but the extent that I take them to is not. An ass whooping is often deserved. Torture and permanent damage is ( usually) not. I need to fix this before I wind up in a lot of trouble.
You see, when you are a guy like me who turns the other cheek so often, people begin to see you as someone who they can push around. It is only a matter of time before you lash out on these people. Think about it.
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Just because your nice doesnt mean you cant kick a person's ass if you dont want to.
You've done it before.
You can be secure with yourself, knowing you CAN, but dont have to. Because you have nothing to prove to anybody else.
I'm more skeptical
If you really care what people think about you. If your insecure with yourself, that you think you have to beat everybody up or else your not masculine enough.
But you gotta be secure with your masculinity. Just dont care what people think about you.
Being nice is nice.
But I agree with you defending your girlfriend at the time. Sure you didnt have to damage him that far.
And I agree you didnt have to punch the guy for making a comment, you couldve still told him off though
At least you taught the dude a lesson that he shouldnt be groping random chicks.
I think that's disgusting behavior