Ummm i had this issue the only thing you have to worry about is if he views you like a sister.. .i had a best friend and he and i knew each other for ages and i think we were both very much attracted to one another (his mother would even tell me how he never shut up about me and wanted to know why we werent together). However i wanted to go the step further...but for him... even though there was the attraction in his mind it was a bit taboo he was very scared of what might happen if we became a couple. He told me there were times he thought about being with me, wanting to kiss me, and things of that nature but immediately after he was freaked out by it because he thought it was like being attracted to a family member and not just a girl. Play it safe... worse that could is he tells you he can't do it... only you can decide if that's going to affect your relationship ...and if you two do get together....if things dont work... what might happen.... is also something you need to factor in
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Ummm i had this issue the only thing you have to worry about is if he views you like a sister.. .i had a best friend and he and i knew each other for ages and i think we were both very much attracted to one another (his mother would even tell me how he never shut up about me and wanted to know why we werent together). However i wanted to go the step further...but for him... even though there was the attraction in his mind it was a bit taboo he was very scared of what might happen if we became a couple. He told me there were times he thought about being with me, wanting to kiss me, and things of that nature but immediately after he was freaked out by it because he thought it was like being attracted to a family member and not just a girl. Play it safe... worse that could is he tells you he can't do it... only you can decide if that's going to affect your relationship ...and if you two do get together....if things dont work... what might happen.... is also something you need to factor in