Guys are funny about relationships. If you approached him one day and asked him to change and he agreed, then the very next day, you brought it up again, I can see how he would have gotten upset.
You said that if he truly cared, he wouldn't have to try. I don't agree with that. If he cares, he cares. What it sounds like you're asking him to do is try harder to show you that he cares, and for some people that takes effort. Someone may really care about you a lot, but may have a hard time showing it or may have to make an effort to show you in the way you expect to be shown.
In a relationship, I'd be careful in setting specific expectations in a relationship, especially when it comes to determining whether he cares for you or not. If you find yourself saying, "If you loved me, you would ____," you may be setting realistic expectations.
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Guys are funny about relationships. If you approached him one day and asked him to change and he agreed, then the very next day, you brought it up again, I can see how he would have gotten upset.
You said that if he truly cared, he wouldn't have to try. I don't agree with that. If he cares, he cares. What it sounds like you're asking him to do is try harder to show you that he cares, and for some people that takes effort. Someone may really care about you a lot, but may have a hard time showing it or may have to make an effort to show you in the way you expect to be shown.
In a relationship, I'd be careful in setting specific expectations in a relationship, especially when it comes to determining whether he cares for you or not. If you find yourself saying, "If you loved me, you would ____," you may be setting realistic expectations.
That's just my opinion based on what I read.