In i freeze up when talking dirty during sex?

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Everytime my boyfriend and I do the deed I can never bring myself to talk dirty. I think some pretty nasty things but can't bring myself to say them. He has no problem talking dirty so I feel like I should too. Any suggestions?

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  • mountain-man82
    9 years ago | pl

    When you get comfortable enough, you'll be able to say want you want. Just give it time and maybe take it one step at a time. Start off with saying little things here and there until you are comfortable enough to say all you would like to say there.

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    • Johnnytherat
      9 years ago | pl

      I grew up in the depression era. You punk kids know nothing of modesty. This generation is doomed, DOOMED I TELL YA! *waves walking cane in the air and then walks away slowly and disgruntled*

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      • mountain-man82
        9 years ago | pl

        Lack of modesty and respect and values and a sense of class all stem from parents either not being able to properly punish their kids or the parents not caring to. The modesty you speak of in this case isnt a thing thats shared in public. The person is talking about things that happen behind closed doors. Certainly you cant be so prudish as to make the person feel bad for expressing herself inside the confines of her own bedroom.

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        • Johnnytherat
          9 years ago | pl

          *falls asleep halfway through trying to read all of that* zZzZzZzZz *mumbles racist slurs*

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          • maney16
            7 years ago | pl

            What an idiot! Can't imagine people like this still exist!
            *laughs sarcastically*!

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    • aseasyas
      9 years ago | pl

      True

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago | pl

    I freeze up to, probably afraid something weird will come out.

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  • Johnnytherat
    9 years ago | pl

    Drink a big glass of toilet water if you want to be such a potty mouth.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago | pl

    same

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago | pl

    Maybe talking dirty isn't for you?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago | pl

      But I want to be able to.. The thoughts are there but I can't say them out loud.

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  • Faceless
    9 years ago | pl

    Try being drunk and let the freak flag fly!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago | pl

      I don't really like drinking :/

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