In a relationship, whats a deal breaker for you?

For me it would be poor personal hygein. Thats a big one for me.
Whats the first thing that pops into your head when it comes to deal breakers in a relationship?

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  • My expectations would be someone who isn't a:
    - gold digger
    - manipulator
    - ungrateful person
    - poor hygiene to the point I pass out
    - smoker
    - drunkard
    - narcissist

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  • Yeah, poor hygiene along with bad breath, i cannot stand a stupid girl with bad breath

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  • Blatant dishonesty (not just occasional little white lies). My wife is in total agreement on this; and our 1st wedding vow is "honesty in all things, except things like there is a surprise party next week."

    The truth is often difficult to deal with, and it can hurt. But, we both agree that its a lot easier to deal with the truth than to deal with the situation and a lie too (how do you recover from a lie as that destroys the trust needed for a healthy relationship).

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  • I cannot date, marry, or just be with aomeone in an intimate way if she is a smoker. The smell, the yech taste when she kisses me even tho i tell her not to kiss me right after she smoked. That didnt last long. I couldnt deal with it.

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  • The love of my life smells like a car engine bay lol.

    Just being mean is my #1. If someone treats me bad, I haaaaaaatttteeee it so much. I know lots of girls find it a little naughty & sexy when a guy talks down to them a little or is emotional unavailable. I hate that so much...oh God, it's the worst. Positive reinforcement all day long!!

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  • A girl thats boring in bed. That's the #1 dealbreaker for me. The ones that say "no i dont do that" in bed or they cant take it rough or whatever. You're either a horny person or you're not.

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  • Taking himself too seriously and not finding in humour in every situation

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  • Different political agenda. Like far left.

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  • Liar, manipulator.

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  • If someone doesn't like cats, and dogs then there's really no sense in even knowing the person's name! See ya wouldn't wanna be ya.

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  • If yo breath is stanky. FUCK OFF.

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  • Any "deal breaker" is merely a manifestation of your personal insecurity. If you share a deep enough connection with someone there is no such thing.

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  • The moment they stick a fag in their gob!

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