Sex-wise, I find both can be very fun when you occupy those roles occasionally to supplement vanilla sex. I slightly prefer being dominant, although to a great extent which I prefer comes down to what my sex partner enjoys most.
I think both of them suck in any other context than sex, because I feel like having a dominant and a submissive partner inherently reduces autonomy and respect for each other which makes a relationship emotionally unsustainable. I can only speak for myself, but I do believe the healthiest relationships have an equal "balance of power" in terms of individual freedom and decision-making as a couple.
In a relationship, do you prefer being the Dominant or Submissive one?
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Sex-wise, I find both can be very fun when you occupy those roles occasionally to supplement vanilla sex. I slightly prefer being dominant, although to a great extent which I prefer comes down to what my sex partner enjoys most.
I think both of them suck in any other context than sex, because I feel like having a dominant and a submissive partner inherently reduces autonomy and respect for each other which makes a relationship emotionally unsustainable. I can only speak for myself, but I do believe the healthiest relationships have an equal "balance of power" in terms of individual freedom and decision-making as a couple.