It's not terrible, but if you can avoid it, I would recommend you try. The only reason I say this is because I am an AWFUL flirt, and it sort of wrecked my last relationship.If you can keep it under control, go for it, but be careful... if your man starts feeling threatened or insecure about your feelings for him, you might want to re-evaluate things... how do you REALLY feel about him? Is it worth hurting him for your own pleasure? Would you prefer not to be in a relationship? Just think it through.
If you're in a relationship and someone asks you out, you say "no" but it still makes you feel good about yourself.
I would not date anyone with whom I couldn't come home from work and say "The girl at the coffee shop asked me out today. It made me feel good about myself, and I said "no" because I'd rather have you."
In a truly honest relationship you shouldn't have to feel guilty for feeling a natural, normal attraction to someone other than your partner.
You don't cheat because you care about your partner's feelings, not to mention keeping them in your life.
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It's not terrible, but if you can avoid it, I would recommend you try. The only reason I say this is because I am an AWFUL flirt, and it sort of wrecked my last relationship.If you can keep it under control, go for it, but be careful... if your man starts feeling threatened or insecure about your feelings for him, you might want to re-evaluate things... how do you REALLY feel about him? Is it worth hurting him for your own pleasure? Would you prefer not to be in a relationship? Just think it through.
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If you're in a relationship and someone asks you out, you say "no" but it still makes you feel good about yourself.
I would not date anyone with whom I couldn't come home from work and say "The girl at the coffee shop asked me out today. It made me feel good about myself, and I said "no" because I'd rather have you."
In a truly honest relationship you shouldn't have to feel guilty for feeling a natural, normal attraction to someone other than your partner.
You don't cheat because you care about your partner's feelings, not to mention keeping them in your life.