Ima big fat flirt...lol

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I am a VERY big flirt and usually when I go for a guy I usually get them by keeping them thinking about me with my mysteriuos flirting ways. I can make a guy fall in love with me but only if its the right guy..ie I like them very much. The only problem is Im in a long term relation. I LOVE to flirt but I would HATE to cheat. Is is okay to Love to flirt but be in a relationship?

P.s My flirting does not include me making sexual advances or me wering sl*tty cloths its all in the eyes...and my swag...lol

I also am in no way intimidated by men in the least

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  • 4w04se
    14 years ago

    I've always believed that a Flirt is either someone who needs attention or someone who lacks love and security in her/his life

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    • kelili
      11 years ago

      So true

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  • bingbong5
    14 years ago

    When I first read this heading I thought it said I'm a big fat fart. Ooops sorry.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    I think big flirts can be an annoying - a form of attention & approval seeking.

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  • TerryWithTats
    7 years ago

    It shows your insecurity and your attention-seeking. Flirting is very disrespectful to your partner. If you can't stop then you have a serious problem.

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  • Jane57345
    8 years ago

    No you can't make a guy fall in love with you, flirting can make a guy want you but it isn't love, that takes time.

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  • mebaby
    8 years ago

    Flirt with your partner, its a way of showing interest/affection.

    Doing it with others while in a relationship isnt very nice, and you are misleading them.

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  • darkhairtanskin
    11 years ago

    Lol bet you get no guys, honey swag doesn't pay the bills

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  • Wiseguy
    12 years ago

    I'm a 30-year old guy, and I am the same way. I've given a lot of introspection to this, and I believe it's for my self-confidence (particularly in regards to sex).

    Being attractive to other people is the basic motivation for keeping good hygiene, staying physically fit, and seeking financial gain.

    Flirting helps me know that I could have someone else if I wanted to, which shows that I'm with my partner because I have CHOSEN to be with them, and we both know that my choice is based on things other than just sex (because I could have sex with those other people, but don't).

    And if, in the end, I meet someone that I like more than my girlfriend, then I can choose to stay with my girlfriend or move on. That choice is based on how long I've been with my girlfriend, how good the time has been, and how good things seem likely to be with my would-be new girlfriend.

    This process is called "dating." It's the social space in-between "single" and "long-term relationship."

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  • cleverusername
    13 years ago

    If you want to flirt, just flirt with your guy! As a guy, I can tell you that he would love it!

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  • DiscoDuck
    14 years ago

    You sound like this married white chick I knew. She only loved to flirt with me in class or when people were around...otherwise she would barely speak.

    I ignore flirty people, cause they are a pain in the arse.

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  • nothing2
    14 years ago

    hey maybe you lookin' fo sumptin' else. on the sly, deep in yo mind. never ignore the obvious. sometimes we don't see it is all.

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  • ttainted
    14 years ago

    ^ BINGO. You crave attention, need it, survive on it. You're a pre-madona, as they call it. My sister is the exact same way and it drives me crazy. She's in a long term relationship (going on five years) but she flirts with anyone who has a dick. It's going to get her hurt, or raped, or both.

    I'd try and be more aware. Nothing turns people off more than that. And no one will respect you.

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    • Wiseguy
      12 years ago

      "Pre-madonna"

      Prima donna 2: a vain or undisciplined person who finds it difficult to work under direction or as part of a team

      I do believe it's about attention, though. It is natural that the attention of others feels good. In a long-term relationship, it feels good to know that you are still attractive to others.

      It gives you the confidence to stay in a good relationship, and it gives you the confidence to get out of a bad one.

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  • xbumblybee
    14 years ago

    It's not terrible, but if you can avoid it, I would recommend you try. The only reason I say this is because I am an AWFUL flirt, and it sort of wrecked my last relationship.If you can keep it under control, go for it, but be careful... if your man starts feeling threatened or insecure about your feelings for him, you might want to re-evaluate things... how do you REALLY feel about him? Is it worth hurting him for your own pleasure? Would you prefer not to be in a relationship? Just think it through.

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    • Wiseguy
      12 years ago

      If you're in a relationship and someone asks you out, you say "no" but it still makes you feel good about yourself.

      I would not date anyone with whom I couldn't come home from work and say "The girl at the coffee shop asked me out today. It made me feel good about myself, and I said "no" because I'd rather have you."

      In a truly honest relationship you shouldn't have to feel guilty for feeling a natural, normal attraction to someone other than your partner.

      You don't cheat because you care about your partner's feelings, not to mention keeping them in your life.

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  • Chonga
    14 years ago

    Flirting is another form of cheating,you are not ready for a relationship!

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