Hmm, it's usually guys freaking out about a woman's kids. I raised my daughters after mom split when they were really young. You know, it's all about the kids. If they're little f**ks that are disrespectful, mean and clingy, walk. He's the problem. If they act like kids, which means they can be all over the place emotionally, that's natural. Don't like it, don't do it. I so fell in love with a woman that couldn't deal with my kids because it was a relationship tied to my ex. She wanted to have kids with me but didn't want my kids because it was a reminder of where I was before. Very insecure, which she admitted. We parted feeling completely confused and at odds. She's a fairly public figure where I live and I always wonder if she would have gotten over it where we'd be today. But given the choice, I don't think that I could have been here without my girls.
im uncomfortable dating a guy who has kids.
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Hmm, it's usually guys freaking out about a woman's kids. I raised my daughters after mom split when they were really young. You know, it's all about the kids. If they're little f**ks that are disrespectful, mean and clingy, walk. He's the problem. If they act like kids, which means they can be all over the place emotionally, that's natural. Don't like it, don't do it. I so fell in love with a woman that couldn't deal with my kids because it was a relationship tied to my ex. She wanted to have kids with me but didn't want my kids because it was a reminder of where I was before. Very insecure, which she admitted. We parted feeling completely confused and at odds. She's a fairly public figure where I live and I always wonder if she would have gotten over it where we'd be today. But given the choice, I don't think that I could have been here without my girls.