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I am angry that this guy wants to introduce me to his kids. i like him but the fact that his kids will meet me terrifies the sh*t out of me. i hate kids.
If you don't like kids, you really shouldn't be going out with a guy who has them. Those kids are ALWAYS going to be his number 1 priority, and you'll find yourself being abandoned because of his offspring. It would be best to find a guy who has no kids and doesn't want any. It can only get worse if you stay in the relationship resenting his kids and him for having them.
im dating a guy with three kids. i now live with them and its easy.were 1 big happy family.problem lies with the x!!!!!psycho x g/f syndrome!!!der a pain in d arse.askin 4 d bloke back in little love letters n tryin to split the family up n constantly phonin n textin.its damn annoyin.but u jus gotta stick in der n ignore the silly twat.im jus luck my bloke realises im the better girl!!!!
I decided early to never date a man who had pervious kids. More than the kids, unless she is dead the ex will always be in the picture. Fine someone else.
I would also be frightened witless, no guy should have kids, thats a womans job!
I agree with rebel2010. You are trying to force yourself to like the situation. The resentment will only continue to build. Stopping wasting his time and yours.
Hmm, it's usually guys freaking out about a woman's kids. I raised my daughters after mom split when they were really young. You know, it's all about the kids. If they're little f**ks that are disrespectful, mean and clingy, walk. He's the problem. If they act like kids, which means they can be all over the place emotionally, that's natural. Don't like it, don't do it. I so fell in love with a woman that couldn't deal with my kids because it was a relationship tied to my ex. She wanted to have kids with me but didn't want my kids because it was a reminder of where I was before. Very insecure, which she admitted. We parted feeling completely confused and at odds. She's a fairly public figure where I live and I always wonder if she would have gotten over it where we'd be today. But given the choice, I don't think that I could have been here without my girls.
Well if you like him but hate his kids then he probably won't stay with you. Most people truely care about their kids and you're expendable they aren't. If he's a parent and you don't want to be break up with him before you end up being one.
I dated a girl for 3 1/2 years that was like you. I told her I was not looking for a mom for my kids. I just wanted her to be there for me. But, she needed to lealize that the kids would be there with me.Yes, at times they were an inconvenience to her but, I took care of them and all their needs. In the end she just couldn't deal with it and we split. Word of advice. If ou don't want to be a pat of his "FAMILY" don't lead him on. don't end up breaking both your hearts.
Okay enough said my kids are older and out of the house.....need to meet someone nice?
I'm uncomfortable with it, but for a different reason. I actually like kids. But it's a matter of, what *kind* of a guy has kids out of wedlock? Often, not the kind of guy I want to date.
If you want any type of relationship with this guy you have got to accept his kids.They are part of him so except them.You may not need to be around them much,but when you are be nice.
hes not asking u to b mum so just meet them c how u fill i sure things will go well, not all kids r little shits.if he wants u to meet them it shows he likes u