Im so scared of growing up?

I think because society has always put guys and girls into separate categories relating to being a virgin. Girls- are classed as more superior in most guys eyes when they still have their v plates due to being a guys first, extra tight down there and lastly filling their ego of "conquering a virgin". Its the opposite for the guys though! They are classed as un-cool so to speak, a loser and judged for them not being able to get laid. I guess they see it as a weakness and a game- another notch on their belt sort of thing.