Im so fucking lonely

I've lost a lot of my friends because of stupid shit I did but I cant fucking make long lasting new friends i dont know why... im so fucking lonely i just wanna die

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  • Somenormie

    Get a hold of yourself and do not die. Make yourself occupied of something. What stupid shit did you even do? If it is something minor then you should move on and try to talk to someone.

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    • Btw, over exxagerating how? I mean, it's all true

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      • Somenormie

        Okay maybe that wasn't the right word I should be using, if this is true then you should perhaps seek some professional help maybe tell them why you are lonely they can help you.

        This can affect your wellbeing and it may concern others the way you think.

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    • I've done stupid shit again and again, I did change as a person, but they don't care, and one of them just keeps coming back to yell and me about my past mistakes, I just wanna move on but I cant find anyone else so... I dont know.

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      • Somenormie

        If you are on the cycle then the least you can do is to perhaps think about the root causes because you want to find the primary reason why you are doing that again and again.

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  • Mini69

    Perhaps you should move to a new area where people don’t know you and start again making new friends and being a bit more sensible with the choices you make.

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    • Yeah, that's what I'm doing, but they were online friends either way, so I dont really have to move, I just cant make a friend that i know as well as them

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  • my_life_my_way

    Just find some new friends, it’s pretty easy to do.

    My whole teenage years was just finding a group of friends, them thinking I was funny and the life of the party, them getting tired of me making the same shock value offensive jokes all time, them eventually thinking I’m shallow, pathetic and unable to connect with others in a meaningful way and me just moving on to some new friends.

    You just gotta find a cycle that works for you. Other than that, I guess you could just relentlessly seek attention on the internet, not that that’s something I’ve ever done of course.

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    • Somenormie

      But then ask yourself this:

      What do you actually hope to gain by relentlessly trying to seek attention?

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      • Attention is a hell of a drug

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      • my_life_my_way

        Attention, I hope to gain attention

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        • Inkmaster

          But for what purpose?

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          • my_life_my_way

            Attention makes me feel good, nothing deeper than that

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            • yooper69420

              you must be hilarious on Call of Duty

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    • Sad18yo

      "Just find some new friends, it’s pretty easy to do."

      I wish :(

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  • DADNSCAL

    You need to take control of your life and eliminate self destructive behavior. I was in much the same place as you in my 20’s and I went to therapy. It helps.

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  • RoseIsabella

    What kinda "stupid shit" do you do? Are you intoxicated when you do this stupid shit?

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