i know a guy who's going through exactly what you're going through. people are really suspicious of him and he does all he can to make people think otherwise. u may not be a complete flamer, but that doesn't mean you can't be gay. u will actually get alot of respect if u just come out. BUT BE SURE FIRST!!! you will be amazed at how accepting people are of gay people. and this is coming from an openly gay male, so i know what i'm talking about.
now if ur mom really and truly loves u, then she's not going to disown you. but, just because they're your parents doesn't mean that they are gonna fully agree with it. my parents love me just as much but they don't think that my lifestyle is right. but if they truly love you, then u have nothing to worry about. if your parents have ever told u "i'll love you no matter what", this is the time to see if they are seriously telling the truth.
you will feel alot better if you come out. i have met alot of closet gays (including my boyfriend when we first started dating) that are absolutely miserable because they have to keep such a big secret. they think that they have to act differently because people will get on to them. the number 1 way of thinking for being gay: it doesn't matter what they think. be you, not what society wants you to be.
im seiously scared im gay.
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i know a guy who's going through exactly what you're going through. people are really suspicious of him and he does all he can to make people think otherwise. u may not be a complete flamer, but that doesn't mean you can't be gay. u will actually get alot of respect if u just come out. BUT BE SURE FIRST!!! you will be amazed at how accepting people are of gay people. and this is coming from an openly gay male, so i know what i'm talking about.
now if ur mom really and truly loves u, then she's not going to disown you. but, just because they're your parents doesn't mean that they are gonna fully agree with it. my parents love me just as much but they don't think that my lifestyle is right. but if they truly love you, then u have nothing to worry about. if your parents have ever told u "i'll love you no matter what", this is the time to see if they are seriously telling the truth.
you will feel alot better if you come out. i have met alot of closet gays (including my boyfriend when we first started dating) that are absolutely miserable because they have to keep such a big secret. they think that they have to act differently because people will get on to them. the number 1 way of thinking for being gay: it doesn't matter what they think. be you, not what society wants you to be.
good luck, bud. i wish u the best.
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by the way, i went through the same thing for 2 years. it was hell. like i said, it's alot easier to be out than to keep it secret.
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one more thing: if you are really struggling with it, go to http://www.itgetsbetter.org
that's a really great encouragement site.