Im obsessed with sex. i touch my wifes friends and think about fucking

im obsessed with sex. I have a wife who i love very much but i can't stop thinking about it.

For years every time one of her girlfriends stays at ours i grope them and spoon them. one time a few weeks ago it went to far and whilst my wife was passed out after a big night out i played with her friends pussy and fucked her very quietly whilst my wife slept. I took it future and did weird things like strangle the friend and put my fingers up her ass. she loved it and hasn't said a word but im not thinking maybe i should leave my wife because clearly i don't love her enough. I don't want to hurt her if she found out.

what should i do?

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  • Cut off your fingers and your dinger.

    You and your wife could also quit drinking to excess as well as stop having her friends spend the night.

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  • Its normal to like sex alot but your fucked up man for cheatin on your wife like u did she dont deserve sumone like u who is sketchy with her friends behind her back its obvious u dont love your wife anymore so jus end it while u can..... im addicted to sex to always on my mind and horny as fuck but u dont go out and cheat i jus fuck the shit out my wife

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  • FFS! This is one of the most poor quality troll posts that I have seen on IIN so far. Your spelling, grammar and most of all your imagination are of poor quality and need a lot of work to make them all at least passable.

    Go back to primary school you idiot!

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  • How would you like it if you were passed out and found your wife fucking one of your friends?

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  • i don't get this whole normal thing or not. Look man, there are no wrong feelings or wrong decisions. There are consequences though. Honesty above all.

    You're not a monster for cheating on your wife. I believe you can have sex with other people and still love your wife. You dont love that other woman you had sex with. If your wife had sex with another man because she found him attractive, it doesn't mean she's in love with him, simply aroused. If you can understand that, then cool. If not, you're just a hypocrite. you get what im saying?

    Tell her what happened. Tell her how you feel. There are no wrong decisions.

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  • if you want to stay with your wife and stop your activities, I'd suggest mental exercises and self hypnosis, I've found it to be remarkably effect in dealing with a wide variety of issues.

    If you want to keep your wife and not stop, try to get her into 3ways.

    If you don't want to be married, tell her the truth and get a divorce, just don't fuck her over, give what she deserves when she leaves, since you've already literally been fucking her over.

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    • people should be very careful with hypnosis, I tried sissy hypnosis porn a couple months ago and now I am a sissy white boi that loves to suck big black cock. I can't stop thinking about it, it tastes sooooo good, the video hypnosis worked so well that I get hard just thinking about BBC

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    • What are the mental exercises ?

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      • Different things but basically, Imagine yourself literally reaching inside your mind, grabbing a hold of the bad thoughts and desires you have and then throwing them away.
        Think about that regularly, and couple it with physical actions to reinforce it, like next time they throw a party the you should make a point to keep a certain amount a distance between yourself and the other women.

        Another one Is to remind yourself how much you love your wife, by thinking about the times she's made you the happiest, and the times you felt the worst for hurting her. To reinforce this one you should make a point of looking at your wife more often, and make sure every time you do you consciously remind yourself to smile while looking at her. This will retrain your brain to love her more, and make the idea of hurting her too painful to bare.

        These are just a few, I know they sound strange but if you do them regularly they are quite effective.

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  • If this is true I feel very sorry for your wife. To be betrayed by her husband and her friend at the same time ... That's really cruel.
    You should let her find someome else who will be faithful.

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  • hello i cant help if he would like im not use to helping men out with sex issuse but in this case i think ill step out of my feald and try to help

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  • Why don't you just touch your fuckin wife? Poor girl probably doesn't get any even though that's what you married her for. Unloyal fuck nugget.

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  • Leave your wife. Idk if you should tell her or not but at least don't leave her saddled with a sex addict. My ex was just like you and I'm so fucking glad that i found out i can't imagine how bad it would be if i hadn't.

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  • I dunno, you could try strangling your wife after a little ass play with a fruit knife.

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  • Leave your wife. She deserves better.

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  • Jus leave your wife then u can fuck anyone u want have three ways with your wifes friends

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  • You may need to visit psychiatrist

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  • Yeah we probably do drink to much but we're young.

    i can't stop fantasying about other people and i get turned on by the risks that my wife might find out.

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