Im insecure about my relationship! help me!

ok so i have been in a relationship with the perfect guy for a year and 4 months. i have been very insecure for a couple months now. my bf has told me that he preferred puerto rican and african american women over any other race. i am mixed with white, african american, and native american. everytime i see a good looking puerto rican or african american girl walk past i make sure that my boyfriend doesnt look at them and if he turns his head a little bit i think he wants her or something. i get jealous when there are half naked girls in pictures or movies and make hime turn away or cover his eyes. yeah i guess im really bad but i cant help it. he used to be a big flirt but since i have been in this relationship he has never given me a reason to think he is cheating. i think i am good looking most of the time. i have my own insecurities. ive never been cheated on and he my first really serious relationship. im so tired of worrying about what he is doing and that he will leave me for a better looking girl. how can i stop being so insecure? i am afraid of losing this relationship and i feel that if i carry this on then it will end. please help me!

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  • Vforvendetta

    Looks like he is not the right guy for u. Whats the reason of having relationship anyways? Ask urself..ur probably still young. Dont take things to serious & leave some for urself. I blame the media for showing that outside beauty is very attractive..but truly true beauty is in the inside..find a guy who can love u for who are not how he wants u to be. Im just sayin..but goodluck! God speed love!

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  • alone4679

    well my dad looks at girls all the time even though he is married but he has never cheated on her though just let it play out im sure its nonthing

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