Im easygoing and i hate it!

I'm like that too. But it's best to be the better person and let fate and karma bitch slap them in the future! (:

easygoing is nice

its normal but you dont have to except it, NOR should you over correct it or replay over and over in your mind. you were just brought up right, it will pay off believe me, im a girl and took alot of crap in school but those same girls who were overly mouthy? - every guy that we mutually knew would comment on it like saying they are obnoxious or crazy. NOW YOU CAN BE GRAY when i say gray i mean, dont under react but dont over react, and pick the battles appropriately. ex. appropriate batle would be if a moving person banged up your wall and furniture while moving it in, but denys it, : you would act accordingly you would show them where the wall and the furniture have matching marks. You dnt need to get a result or reaction, you just have to stand up for yourself when someone directly targets you or directly misleads you.
I was taught that if someone insults you or pokes fun at you in a passive way or even aggressivly, that I should respond but not let them get a reaction, which will be what happens if you blow up- thats called being a puppet and the aggressor pulls your strings. so for example the person says " you know what? I think you need to get a life!" then you can say with EASE " You think? what makes you thinks so" or when someone is obviously just being a s#!t head and making a joke kor ou chline at your expense, say " tell me more" " why is that" CAUSE THEY DONT ANTICIPATE A CALM RESPONSE it annoys them.

also The peopke that are really obnoxious and annoying may survive a little better in school but, after that they will have to act more adult like or no one will take them seriously. i personally like to watch peopke spin out of control and make there selfves look bad it takes practice but you can learn lol

Not sure if you're pretending to be easygoing, but it sounds like it because you hate it and would honestly act in a different way.

I'm pretending to be an easygoing person myself just because I don't want others to know what I really think. I think you could say it's one my "defensive mechanisms".

And yes, I have been very close to exploding and really saying what I think of some of the people close to me. I think the last time I got visibly mad at someone was over seven years ago.

My advice to you is to find a subtle way to express your real feelings. No need to explode and break relationships.

Telling off isn't whining dumbfuck

I think that's a good thing fir the most part.

Hey man, I was the same exact way. I wanted to please everyone all of the time and I would feel remorse if I felt I was "mean" to someone. The bottom line is that you need to be you. Speak your mind and stop caring if someone in the world get's upset by your words or actions. If your feelings are justified then you need to come out with it; However, I must always advise to approach any situation with intelligence. Exploding on someone can do way more harm in most cases. All of that said, don't try to change yourself. I'm still very easy going, but I don't take shit when the situation arises.

Why change a good thing?

You're better not to display your weaknesses to everyone anyway. Let people think that very little bothers you, then they think they can't get under your skin.

A lot of people would love to come off as easygoing as you do. Count yourself lucky, because awkwardness is a lot worse.

Stop caring about what people think and tell them off. You might come off as an asshole but that's usually the way a person comes off when they're trying to protect their integrity.

Stop being a pussy and stand up for yourself and what you believe in. I can't fucking stand you faggoty-ass boys who can't even stand up for themselves verbally, let alone physically. Man-up already for fucks sake! Stop whining! What's wrong with you?