It is fine for your boyfriend to have preferences and to make suggestions for you to try, but always make sure that when you change your appearance to fit them, that it is something you want to do as well. Also, although it doesn't sound like it was the case, if a guy ever threatens to leave you if you don't change your appearance or tries to pressure you into it knowing that you don't want to do it, never go through with it. Although it is fine for him to have preferences, if he is dating you, he should like you for you and not be fixated on changing you.
I had a boyfriend try to convince me to cut all of my hair off into a pixie, but I knew I would hate it and told him that I didn't want to. He asked a few more times, but eventually let it go.
If it is something you want to do, great. Just make sure you aren't going against your wishes in order to please your boyfriend.
Im changing to blonde to please my boyfriend
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It is fine for your boyfriend to have preferences and to make suggestions for you to try, but always make sure that when you change your appearance to fit them, that it is something you want to do as well. Also, although it doesn't sound like it was the case, if a guy ever threatens to leave you if you don't change your appearance or tries to pressure you into it knowing that you don't want to do it, never go through with it. Although it is fine for him to have preferences, if he is dating you, he should like you for you and not be fixated on changing you.
I had a boyfriend try to convince me to cut all of my hair off into a pixie, but I knew I would hate it and told him that I didn't want to. He asked a few more times, but eventually let it go.
If it is something you want to do, great. Just make sure you aren't going against your wishes in order to please your boyfriend.