Im afraid that a woman might trick me into rasing a kid that isnt mine

I don't know how to word this but I'm afraid that a woman will cheat on me get pregnant and claim the child is mine when it really isn't.

it feels irrational but I've been hearing to many stories like that and it depresses me to no end that some assholes do this.

is this normal?

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Based on 33 votes (21 yes)
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  • cipro

    Paternity test of the kid.

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  • LloydAsher

    I would be terrified of that if I didnt pull out my trap card *sterile*

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    • RoseIsabella

      Technically you still need a use condoms to protect yourself, and your partners from possible transmission of diseases.

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      • LloydAsher

        I mean yeah obviously. But chicks be crazy and they pull the I'm pregnant card when things go sour.

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        • RoseIsabella

          Since you're shooting blanks, has anyone ever tried that shit on you?

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          • LloydAsher

            No... is that more common than I think it is.

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            • RoseIsabella

              I don't know. I'm glad I'm not a guy. I sure as Hell wouldn't take some chick's word for it if she says she's on the pill, besides if I were I guy I still wouldn't want to take a chance on catching something.

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    • Doesnormalmatter

      How did you sterilize yourself? Vasectomy? I'm thinking about getting one of them.

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      • LloydAsher

        Technically I'm intersex but I'm born with a dick (testicles dont work that's why I'm sterile) and I am a Male. But I only found out when I was 20.

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        • Doesnormalmatter

          Oh so not by choice. Oops. Sorry for the unsolicited question about a vasectomy lol.

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          • LloydAsher

            No it's fine, well if you dont mind not having children anymore, go for it! Because I hear it's a bitch to get it fixed.

            But I did hear about a future temporary form of contraceptive for men. Basically they put micro foam inside of the tubes that carry sperm from the prostate to the testicles. It tears apart the sperm so you just ejaculate fucked up sperm that none will get through to the egg... could be wrong on multiple fronts with the method but that's what I just read like 2 years ago.

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            • Doesnormalmatter

              Yeah I hope some new tech comes out thats more temporary. I don't see myself wanting kids ever but I think I may be too young to decide for sure at only 20. Parents would also get pissed if they found out I got a vasectomy. Lol. That would be an awkward conversation. What happened to my grandbabies!?!?

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  • shuggy-chan

    Jerry jerry jerry

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  • RoseIsabella

    This is why people use condoms, and why there are such things as paternity tests.

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  • chuy

    It happens all the time.

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  • dimwitted

    Are you that bad at judging character?

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  • WashYaDoggy

    Well, if you are whit, she is white, it comes out looking Chinese.$*&*&*#*%$ SNAP. CONDOM!

    Did I mention CONDOM!

    CONDOM!

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    • RoseIsabella

      No glove, no love has always been my motto.

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  • Get a girl you can trust? If you are with someone and worry they would do that sounds like you gotta find one worthy. We out here just cause we got pussies don’t mean we slap them around everywhere.

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  • ApplePine

    Say, have you heard of The Maury Show? 😁😁😁

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  • Ummitsstillme

    Your fear is somewhat justified. 14 percent of all fathers are unknowingly raising kids that aren't biologically their own.

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    • palehorse

      I, uh, am going to need a source on that somewhat incredible statistic.

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  • JellyBeanBandit

    I'd say it's normal, I'd definitely feel the same way if I had a baby. I just worry that I could be with someone for 50 years but secretly she's been a psychopath the entire time who never really loved me and only stayed with me cos it was beneficial to her. But as soon as it becomes even slightly more beneficial to her, she'll stab me in the back and won't even blink.

    Anyway I'd get a paternity test as soon as the baby is born, I don't think you need to tell the mother to get one. If you do then there's probably some unauthorised DNA testing places you could find online.

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  • trexagireve

    Having a kid is the most amazing thing will ever happen in your life so be the parent and don't care if your wife wanted an other men's cum inside her, after all she chose you because you will be an amazing father for her child.

    Also you never own a kid, it is a free spirit that you have to help and be proud as its getting older.

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  • Just hit up the Maury show if that happens. Then you get to watch her run off stage in tears when he tells you you're not the father, and you can do a little dance and high-five the audience.

    Be positive, man!

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  • bleedingdiarhea

    It happened to my brother who paid support for a daughter until she was 19. He never asked for the DNA test and discovered by accident that she couldnt be his daughter by her blood type. He still talks to her and acts like hes her dad but his resentment toward her mom teems out of him.

    One would think that her having 6 kids by 6 different dads that a red flag or two might have popped up for him but it didnt, at least not as far as he mentioned.

    I dont think your fears are unfounded, since about 35% of paternity tests turn out negative. I do believe though that you can minimalize your chances of being screwed over by simply practicing safe sex and associating yourself with a higher class of women; meeting women at church narrows your risk factor above meeting a drunken barfly.

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