Im a straight male attracted to my straight male best friend?

Im a straight male. I have have a best friend since 2 years. I developed this attraction to him. He's straight also. We sometimes make gay jokes or maybe even touch eachother in a homo way, but not too far that'll make it seem gay. I don't want to come out to him first and I WON'T. I don't know if he feels the same way as me. Is there a way that I can find out if he fantacizes about the same gay thoughts of me and him? Better yet, just in case he doesn't, is there a way that I can turn him on or make him horny to have him develop the same feeling as me without me giving him the idea that I like him in that way. Maybe some kind of body language that might force him in to thinking about me sexually. I really need help with this. Reminder, don't tell me to jus tell him how I feel because its not happening. I need to know that its the same on both ends before I jus tell him how I feel. Discretely, what can I do to make him start thinking more and more of me and him in a sexual relationship? Thanks a lot people! I need him now! Lol

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  • spidersylar

    Normal? Yes.
    Straight? Ha!

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    • KINKYMOOD

      MEEE TOOOO.
      Hey silly... there either IS or ISN'T chemistry that you can FEEL with no words spoken.

      Unless you feel that ... Just keep it in your pocket.

      After our divorces we shared an apartment ... and I DREAMED OF SUCKING HIS COCK

      But there was no mutual chemistry.
      Rats

      kinky mood

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  • I'm sorry but u can't be completely straight... Mabye bi.

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  • Hotmama3454

    Ok stop saying your straight just get to know yourself ok you might be bi or just full gay if you are attracted to him there is someone else you will also be attracted to. So do what feels right and let him know who you are and what your feeling. The closet is no safe place to be today.

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  • fromsomewhere

    Straight? :S

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  • more2c711

    Have a pillow fight or wrestle, that how I got my straight best friend :) good luck because that's sooo hot!

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  • Ahhaha someone said just Jack off right infront of him? Lol he might just join in..ahhaha look u obviously like him so ur bi or gay. And if u really dnt wnt to tell him then ask him over and b4 he gets there take ur shirt off and get hot and sweaty.(by workin out or sumthn) and then Watch his eyes to c if he's like-in it. Then do ur gay joke/flirting thg with him and touch his chest gently. Make sure ur eyes are semi-cocky like u know ur hot caz tht always makes me attracted to the person. Confidence is important. Then c if he does anythf back

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  • paintballgunz99

    Um yea ur not straight! There's ur problem

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  • Hmmaybe

    It is obvious that sexual attraction can lead to strong friendship. but most people do not knwo that it can work the other way around. Strong friendship can lead to attraction even if the friends are not attracted to eachother's gender.

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  • barter1

    Um I think you're gay. No doubt about it. I know cause I'm gay. My gosh, if its that intense, you may as well ask him to marry you. Since you're not wanting to talk to him, make the physical advance a bit more stronger and gauge by observing his reaction. Immediately, you will see if he returns with a big smooch, or a big fist ... in the face that is.

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  • xXScYtHeXx

    I'm a bisexual male and that is the gayest thing I have ever read, you are about as straight as a round about.

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  • LeinaBxtchh

    man crush.
    this doesn't make you bi/gay. It's natural.

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  • gowila

    I am a bi male and I had a good friend and I wanted to tell him that I was attracted to guys. I joked about it and he kinda said he didn't care about if people were gay, so I told him and he didn't mind. I asked him to come to the gay bars with me and we both ended up hooking up with different guys. I didn't come on to him but I gues what I saying is that I didn't know he liked guys until after I told him. I think alot of guys are bi to a certain extent. If he is realy homophobic I would just leave it though and just keep it to your self. I hope you get what you want.

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  • TheGuruOfTheSauce

    lol Dutch rudder time bro

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  • ask him if its ok if u jack off in front of him. dont evn wait for his answer just start and see if he joins in

    i started fingering myself wen i was hangin out with this guy i was soo attracted to and he joined in and now weve been goin out for almost a year!!

    trust me it workss

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  • canihelpit

    All of you people sound uber ignorant, 'your gay, not straight'. Straight men CAN DEVELOP HOMOSEXUAL DESIRES! ! Anyway this is old, but just rough house and "accidentally" touch him, but dont make it obvious by doing it in repetition.

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  • Stefie

    First off you are not straight at all. You may be bi or gay but you are turned on by this guy and that's cool.
    I've been having gay sex since I was 9 years old. If another man flirts in a gay kind of way with you then he will let you play with his dick, trust me. If you get your nerve up and he pops his dick out then just grab his cock and start stroking it. If he gets hard then go in for the blow job and suck his dick til he cums in your mouth. I promise I love to suck a hard cock more than anything and when a man cums in my mouth I cum all in my panties and my dick is so hard it hurts but I'm gay as gay can get.

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  • itellthetruth

    Its been about 4 years so are u guys together

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  • anie154

    I think he feels something too but it's hard to let it out.

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  • zenparadox

    Try saying u don't judge but you think he's attracted to you while drinking but not too much u can just crack up if obviously he isn't. If so great. And your not straight. But thay doesn't mean your whoke identity was wrong. If you like the label keep it. But don't be a slave to it

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  • Anonny

    It really depends entirely on what you want to do to him or what you want him to do to you. If you want full on anal, you're gonna have to put a lot of work into it. If you want his cum, you can probably just tell him how you feel and i'm pretty sure he will let you suck him dry. I know i would and i'm bi curious i suppose =\ i mean every man is at some point.

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  • BoredGuy

    str8 as a rainbow

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  • Tshwanza

    Im currently in the same situation

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  • bubber

    So you want some dirty, gay sex you say?

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  • soft789

    You should tell him direct, but in a few times : Hi, if you have a few minutes, maybe we can go to you or me, and make xxx and xxx and xxxxxxx and then you both go to them and make xXxXxXx and the next days make XXXXX. What should be?

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  • Cosmicgiggle

    Don't worry about straight or gay right now. I was in the exact situation when I wad 21 , and lucky for me, the feelings were mutual. I would nonchalantly bring up a subject when the time is right. Over a few drinks or something mindless.

    Break the ice very carefully where you can shut the door back quickly if need be.

    Maybe along the lines " Ive been wodering about things lately that I've never thought much about. What makes a person gay?". Hear what he had to say and either feel your way through (he'll get the picture after a while if he feels the same. ). See what happens. Life another blog. I'll be looking

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  • more2c711

    You can also have some beers together and throw on a porno. Start rubbing yourself through your pants, If he wants you, he'll do the same thing. Then unzip, pull out, start stroking, bruh his knee with yours. You'll know if he wants it.

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