Maybe try a trial separation? I know it would be hard on the five year old, but if you stayed together and then finally after four more years you want to separate, it would probably harder on a nine year old and now a six year old as well. I would think a child would want to grow up in happy homes with a mother and father who are content rather than a negative environment. Could you really fake your mode 24/7 for your kids?
You might want to also see a counselor or something to talk this over with. It is nice to just have someone to listen. I would gather your complete thoughts, take a while to figure out how you truly feel, and then talk it over with your spouse. Making a rash decision would be a bad idea.
Im a selfish or do I deserve better?
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Maybe try a trial separation? I know it would be hard on the five year old, but if you stayed together and then finally after four more years you want to separate, it would probably harder on a nine year old and now a six year old as well. I would think a child would want to grow up in happy homes with a mother and father who are content rather than a negative environment. Could you really fake your mode 24/7 for your kids?
You might want to also see a counselor or something to talk this over with. It is nice to just have someone to listen. I would gather your complete thoughts, take a while to figure out how you truly feel, and then talk it over with your spouse. Making a rash decision would be a bad idea.