Im 20 years old male virgin is it normal ?

Take this from a 20-year-old girl:
1-for the surgery its gonna leave a scar is it gross for the opposite sex?

It shouldn't be. If it is, you need to find another girl. Honestly, after having gone through what you have, a scar should be a constant reminder to her of how strong you are. Also, there's something very emotionally intimate about revealing your physical flaws to another person; there's a certain beauty in imperfection.

2-im totally inexperienced, will this cut the odds??

I would rather be with a man who has no experience, than a man who has been with more girls than he can remember. In fact, inexperience is also kind of a turn-on.

3- im really a nice guy and im multi-talented and i care about friendship in general .
Personally, friendship SHOULD be the most important part of any relationship. That's the foundation for something that counts. Let a girl find you who feels the same way.

4- i can do serious im responsible and not the kind that thinks with my d---
A responsible man who doesn't think with his dick? Marry me?

You are young still, and I don't think your scars or inexperience should matter to that special girl. If it matters to a girl than she's not worth your time. You have undergone a tough thing and you seem to be making the best of it and moving forward in your life and I think that's amazing and awe inspiring. You sound like a rly nice guy and the right girl will think the same thing. So just hang in there, flirt with some girls and dont go for the ones who are fake and bitchy. Find a nice girl who makes you smile. It will all work out. Goodluck :)

Well ive found girls talk about looks dont count. But when your as ugly as me, no girls wanna be with you. so i spose it depends.... How ugly are you? If the answers, just a bit, well you shud be good as gold man

you sound kinda cute.. I'd date you. :D

Uh...I agree with everyone else. You're only 20, that's young =_=

You'll find the love of your life soon. Everyone does and of she's really the love of your life she'll except you for who you are.

You have nothing to worry about. You've been through a lot at a young age which I am sure has given you strength most people twice your age have yet to gain. You have battle scars. There are a lot of people who find scars sexy, by the way... :D If you don't focus on the fact you're a virgin and just focus on yourself and continuing to grow, you'll find the right girl. I've known several people who were virgins at the age of 20 and even older. Consider it a good thing. Most people aren't emotionally ready for sex when they're teenagers.

You sound like a guy who likes to sit back and watch the world go by, let loose a bit and have fun. My first real girlfriend was at the age 19 and we didn't even have sex till i was 24!

You sound like a great guy. There is somebody out there for you You are still young

I'm going to be honest. The answer to your actual question (virgin at 20) is 'yes'.

The other stuff is troublesome. Hot girls won't like your physical problems. Sorry, I know it sucks, but you should be alright with plainer girls.

Also, you need to stop thinking like this:

"3- im really a nice guy and im multi-talented and i care about friendship in general .
4- i can do serious im responsible and not the kind that thinks with my d--- "

This attitude (being 'nice') will NOT get you laid. End of story. Work on something else you can use to say 'this makes me special'. A driving ambition to build a cathedral, a desire to make the finest suits in London... whatever.

Don't try to be friends with women if you want to have sex with them. 'Nice' leads nowhere -- be honourable instead.

Its not your fault that all that shit had to happen to u man, so u shouldnt be self concious, if anything ull find the right person faster wen they accept u fr all that u r. And believe me ull find them eventually. Learn to love urself before loving someone else in the meantime (dirty comment not intended)