Im 21 and hot i've never kiss a girl or done sth else what should i do

Im 21 , im tall i kind of look like Enrique Iglesias but i could gain some weight too, I've never dated a girl who is not just a friend , I've never kissed a girl well maybe in kindergarden but i dont recall and still it wont count it, no sex at all the last time I was on pussy was the day I came out . I know I'm kind of hot also I have high standards and I'm not lowering them still because I'm not making up with some ugly girl even less if its the first time I want it to be special, I'm also a bit afraid because everyone I know already fuck so I'm kind of on my own but I guess they think I've already done it , when I see a girl I like I feel kind of weird because I guess she would think I already have experience but I'm not so I'm afraid I would disappoint her also I don't know how to approach girls I feel nervous when im thinking of doing it close to them and I'm afraid they would notice that and they wouldn't like me. Im not a jerk and I think and a good guy but my lack of experience is a big handicap i can talk to girls i don't like easily but with hot girls without already being introduced by someone else not :(

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  • you just have to be you and comfortable and relax don't over analyze it sounds like what your doing.

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  • Do you watch porn? Of course you do. I suggest you watch more. You'll beat off a lot more than you already do of course, but you're sure to be motivated to find the real thing. And stop being so full of yourself okay? High standards are great and all that but what the fuck good is all that when you are lonely all the time. You must know a slut or two. At your age they must be hovering around you like a flock of birds. So live a little bro. Grab some crack whore on the down low some night suit up with a latex condom and blow a big load. This will boost your confidence and give you courage. Women won't bite you know. Well, they will if you want them to but it's not time for you to get freaky and funky yet. Crawl before you walk dude. You are a slow starter but give yourself a chance to get there. You'll be fine.

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  • Well, let me tell you a story son:

    I am 21 years old.
    Me and my girlfriend started dating 2 months ago and started a relationship last week.
    BUT I had the same thoughts about sex like you. I was a virgin until last weekend.
    I was afraid of the moment it would happen and well, somehow it happend. I was nervous, I didn't really know what to do and so on...
    But if your girlfriend and you like each other, she will help you with everything just to make you feel good.

    Now you just have to get a girlfriend. You should propably just keep going out with your friends an be yourself. One day you will meet a girl wich likes you and you will like her.
    That's it.

    JUST DON'T make yourself feel uncomfortable about it.

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  • Haha sounds like a recipe for disaster.

    Enjoy being single.

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