You can't change other people, so lets look at you.
From your post, you:
-are not in a relationship with this girl
-want to know who she's calling
-want to know who she's having sex with
-call her repeatedly and maybe excessively
-feel some hostility towards her ("hate")
On the other hand, she:
-said she loved you, at least once [?]
-ignores your repeated/excessive calls
-keeps you at a distance
-dates other men, not you
-calls other men, not you
I don't know for sure, but from your post, you seem a bit obsessed and stalker-ish. Maybe she thought you were nice, but you expect more than she's willing to give and you freak her out by calling so much.
Advice: Only make room in your heart for those who are willing to stay in it. It hurts when those we love the most don't seem to want us as much as we want them, but it's imperative to move on.
YOu got a point. Who she's calling or doing isn't any of my business. I cant say I call her at all really. not much need to since we live next door to each other with open back yards. But guess its safe to say that I'm the one who avoids her. A failing method to forget about her cause like it or not we bump into each other fairly often. I guess what I really want is just a little bit of closure.
IIN You hate her, but you don't, but you do?
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You can't change other people, so lets look at you.
From your post, you:
-are not in a relationship with this girl
-want to know who she's calling
-want to know who she's having sex with
-call her repeatedly and maybe excessively
-feel some hostility towards her ("hate")
On the other hand, she:
-said she loved you, at least once [?]
-ignores your repeated/excessive calls
-keeps you at a distance
-dates other men, not you
-calls other men, not you
I don't know for sure, but from your post, you seem a bit obsessed and stalker-ish. Maybe she thought you were nice, but you expect more than she's willing to give and you freak her out by calling so much.
Advice: Only make room in your heart for those who are willing to stay in it. It hurts when those we love the most don't seem to want us as much as we want them, but it's imperative to move on.
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YOu got a point. Who she's calling or doing isn't any of my business. I cant say I call her at all really. not much need to since we live next door to each other with open back yards. But guess its safe to say that I'm the one who avoids her. A failing method to forget about her cause like it or not we bump into each other fairly often. I guess what I really want is just a little bit of closure.