Is it normal why does my bf pick his mom over me ?

He is very close to his parents and family. It's not fair.I want him and his child all to myself. I should meet all his needs. He shouldn't need to see the rest of his family or friends or have any other interests but me. He should physically fight people and defend my honor. He and his kid should clean my house perfect everyday for me instead of going places together, because watching them clean is fun for me and should be fun for him .Since he isn't allowed to go out with his mom or go to her house , he is invited her here all the fucking time!I want to get married very very soon,and I want his parents to pay for an expensive wedding. But he keeps putting it off because none of his friends or family can stand me? My daddy said I should always get my way and I have tried crying my head off but he still sees her.