Is it normal what is the best way to spank without bruising
my bf hand spanked me the other night for about fifteen minutes on the rear end and I really enjoyed it. Made the sex better and I had a double orgasm for the first time. also is it best to do it over the knee or have me lean against a chair.we want to try a school paddle on each other but want to know to use it and not bruise or hurt each other. is their any thing better than a school paddle for this.i want a good sting and red bottom without bruising.I want it to be fun but not hurt so much I can't sit down.I don't why but the spanking really helps me not to be stressed at work.