my family is very strict, traditional, and religious, they place a high emphasis on education and career success, and they always say that relationships are a distraction so if I ever got a girlfriend I would have to keep it a secret because they would probably criticize me about it if they found out. I've never actually been with a girl, it's not even that I want sex so bad, I just want to feel loved, like I'm brightening a girl's day just by being in her life, just getting to know her and holding hands and being cute and feeling like I matter and showing her how important she is to me. I feel so lonely despite everything I have in life.
Then you're human. Your family values sound unnatural, deranged and sick, a very neurosis-making machine. You should seek for opportunities for meeting girls, it hasn't to be a bar or something like that (which I suppose you'd find stressing), but start going to movies or practicing some sport or taking classes in a new thing, I don't know, hang out with your friends, eventually you'll meet someone through them. I have serious reserves about internet meeting, but maybe it could work for you, who knows?
IIN want to have sex with every girl
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my family is very strict, traditional, and religious, they place a high emphasis on education and career success, and they always say that relationships are a distraction so if I ever got a girlfriend I would have to keep it a secret because they would probably criticize me about it if they found out. I've never actually been with a girl, it's not even that I want sex so bad, I just want to feel loved, like I'm brightening a girl's day just by being in her life, just getting to know her and holding hands and being cute and feeling like I matter and showing her how important she is to me. I feel so lonely despite everything I have in life.
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Then you're human. Your family values sound unnatural, deranged and sick, a very neurosis-making machine. You should seek for opportunities for meeting girls, it hasn't to be a bar or something like that (which I suppose you'd find stressing), but start going to movies or practicing some sport or taking classes in a new thing, I don't know, hang out with your friends, eventually you'll meet someone through them. I have serious reserves about internet meeting, but maybe it could work for you, who knows?