This is why you're so disruptive on this site. You start and then perpetuate endless back and forth insult sessions that are rarely ever related to the topic at hand. I wish you would stop doing this, for the sake of all members of this site that just want to discuss the topic in each post. I've tried to convey this to you privately, but maybe saying this in context will have some impact.
Have you ever thought that if you dealt with trolls, as per your RESPONSIBILITY in operating and "maintaining" an online forum, no one else would have to? This particular person isn't a troll, but we are left to deal with them day after day because YOU won't.
So yeah, I've become hardshelled and combative. Hardly surprising. I face abuse daily, but you don't seem to care about that. You never blame the perpetrators, because you don't know a single thing about the userbase here. And you only have yourself to thank.
Btw, you could have chosen a better example. This wasn't off topic, or against someone I "persecute". If you actually knew the context, if you had a clue about anyone on here, you would know it was the other way around. Genius.
Let's just ignore that someone has been harrassing me here under hundreds of accounts for over FOUR YEARS and you've always been on that trolls side. You told me to ignore, I did for a year. If you won't do the right thing, why should I sit around and be a victim or leave?
Sort yourself out. Your priorities are ridiculous.
But there are others who do this as well and you don't seem to have a problem with them, for example the "flatuoso" whatever guy who has/had around 25-50 accounts that he uses to talk about her out of context on random posts. Maybe if you stopped that she would have a reason to be more respectful?
Here are just a few of his accounts that I could find in a couple minutes
If you're not doing anything to stop the troll problem in the first place, a block feature isn't going to do much. Think about new users. This is a website that needs traffic and new users constantly. Blocking doesn't do shit for new users, all they see is trolls and probably won't stick around long enough to figure out who to block. You keep attempting (poorly) to treat the troll symptoms but not the troll problem itself. You keep hurting real users and still not making a difference in the troll issues. It's like you're deliberately trying to find ways for the trolls to stay at the expense of all other users and your own good. Wake the fuck up. Take some constructive criticism instead of stuffing your head further up your ass. How many successful websites are run like this? None. But you keep doing it your way even though it doesn't work. Refuse to learn or listen. Dumbass.
It comes with using the site and getting to know the user base that you learn that those are all the same person. And if by a small chance they are not, they might as well be, because they act in an identical manner (following around specific users, constantly mentioning their names and joking about their mental state, having a "theme"/catchphrase.. I know you are probably too busy to notice but it gets annoying).
I'm not even sure what you'll consider inappropriate or not. I have reported a lot of them for constantly harrassing her and other users but it doesn't seem to go away, as they write their hateful insults in a way that would not be obvious to someone (mods) who don't know the full context. It's very cruel, and I don't even know Charlim personally but I have seen her post kindly, moreso in the past, and can understand why she'd be less respectful of this site these days based on how all the trolls are allowed to act.
He wont..he will just continue being clueless and siding with the trolls. Who knows maybe he will wise up and listen to the users who are helping support him....but I doubt that. We are all just numbers in his mind.
I'm actually just one of those accounts. And anyone who thinks charli.m makes overall positive contributions, and only positive contributions, to the website isn't accurate. If she agrees or accepts an answer she leaves it alone, if she doesn't she immediately resorts to attacking that same person with a totally condescending attitude.
She just did right up there with "diddums, aww precious" nonsense.
Everyone knows that you are Benedict. Stop denying it. You are a bad liar. You always reply to your own comments with different accounts to seemingly make it appear that multiple people are agreeing with you...but its just you basically talking to yourself. Idiot.
My real name is Eric. Not benedict. This whole thread was really funny tho, thanks. I'm assuming you or charlie did it. Maybe the same person as well lol.
I can vouch for Flatuoso's statement. Although his writing style is very similar to mine, he is not me. I am encouraged to respond to his comments because I think it creates a more convivial social media experience for everyone. Understandably, friction is created by too much groupthink. To this I say, go masturbate, have a nap, then come back refreshed and ready to be engaged.
Yeah..I was not talking about you. Unless you have a guilty conscience in which you feel the need to preemptively defend yourself. But I was not insinuating that you and him were the same users. Someone else completely. But now you have made me slightly suspicious of you. Oh well. Shoo..
A lot of people do that, you included. Very few people on this site make only positive contributions. There's too many trolls and idiots to be worth it.
She isn't disruptive to anyone that is not a troll or complete asshole/moron. What the fuck is wrong with you? She is doing 1,000,000% more troll control than you, you fucking idiot.
I don't think that having a basic sense of respect for people (eg not swearing at them for no reason) makes me a fool or a precious person. Although looking back at my response, I was too harsh, so I apologize to you for that.
I don't think she was swearing for no reason. I also have a different view of swearing, particularly on a non formal website, but that doesn't make either of us wrong or right.
I don't think you need to apologise, either, but I could have been less bitchy. The whole mess Udi has dropped us all in frustrates me and it was wrong to take it out on a bystander. I'm so used to having to be in defense mode. I wish it wasn't that way.
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This is why you're so disruptive on this site. You start and then perpetuate endless back and forth insult sessions that are rarely ever related to the topic at hand. I wish you would stop doing this, for the sake of all members of this site that just want to discuss the topic in each post. I've tried to convey this to you privately, but maybe saying this in context will have some impact.
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Have you ever thought that if you dealt with trolls, as per your RESPONSIBILITY in operating and "maintaining" an online forum, no one else would have to? This particular person isn't a troll, but we are left to deal with them day after day because YOU won't.
So yeah, I've become hardshelled and combative. Hardly surprising. I face abuse daily, but you don't seem to care about that. You never blame the perpetrators, because you don't know a single thing about the userbase here. And you only have yourself to thank.
Btw, you could have chosen a better example. This wasn't off topic, or against someone I "persecute". If you actually knew the context, if you had a clue about anyone on here, you would know it was the other way around. Genius.
Let's just ignore that someone has been harrassing me here under hundreds of accounts for over FOUR YEARS and you've always been on that trolls side. You told me to ignore, I did for a year. If you won't do the right thing, why should I sit around and be a victim or leave?
Sort yourself out. Your priorities are ridiculous.
But there are others who do this as well and you don't seem to have a problem with them, for example the "flatuoso" whatever guy who has/had around 25-50 accounts that he uses to talk about her out of context on random posts. Maybe if you stopped that she would have a reason to be more respectful?
Here are just a few of his accounts that I could find in a couple minutes
https://www.isitnormal.com/member/TowelHead
https://www.isitnormal.com/member/The_Magnificent_Flatuoso
https://www.isitnormal.com/member/McBean
https://www.isitnormal.com/member/The_Loitering_Creep
https://www.isitnormal.com/member/dweeb
https://www.isitnormal.com/member/TheGeriatricAnus
https://www.isitnormal.com/member/TheMightyOz
https://www.isitnormal.com/member/Booger
https://www.isitnormal.com/member/MissileExpert
and he does the exact same thing towards her and other users, yet you single her out because she only has 1 account?
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Thanks, but he won't see it. He's defended that guy for fucking years.
I'm also planning on working on a block feature very soon that I hope will help a lot with this issue.
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If you're not doing anything to stop the troll problem in the first place, a block feature isn't going to do much. Think about new users. This is a website that needs traffic and new users constantly. Blocking doesn't do shit for new users, all they see is trolls and probably won't stick around long enough to figure out who to block. You keep attempting (poorly) to treat the troll symptoms but not the troll problem itself. You keep hurting real users and still not making a difference in the troll issues. It's like you're deliberately trying to find ways for the trolls to stay at the expense of all other users and your own good. Wake the fuck up. Take some constructive criticism instead of stuffing your head further up your ass. How many successful websites are run like this? None. But you keep doing it your way even though it doesn't work. Refuse to learn or listen. Dumbass.
How do you know they're all the same person? Report all comments that are inappropriate and it'll get dealt with as best we can.
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It comes with using the site and getting to know the user base that you learn that those are all the same person. And if by a small chance they are not, they might as well be, because they act in an identical manner (following around specific users, constantly mentioning their names and joking about their mental state, having a "theme"/catchphrase.. I know you are probably too busy to notice but it gets annoying).
I'm not even sure what you'll consider inappropriate or not. I have reported a lot of them for constantly harrassing her and other users but it doesn't seem to go away, as they write their hateful insults in a way that would not be obvious to someone (mods) who don't know the full context. It's very cruel, and I don't even know Charlim personally but I have seen her post kindly, moreso in the past, and can understand why she'd be less respectful of this site these days based on how all the trolls are allowed to act.
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Oh my fucking god, if he finally gets this, it'd be a miracle.
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He wont..he will just continue being clueless and siding with the trolls. Who knows maybe he will wise up and listen to the users who are helping support him....but I doubt that. We are all just numbers in his mind.
I'm actually just one of those accounts. And anyone who thinks charli.m makes overall positive contributions, and only positive contributions, to the website isn't accurate. If she agrees or accepts an answer she leaves it alone, if she doesn't she immediately resorts to attacking that same person with a totally condescending attitude.
She just did right up there with "diddums, aww precious" nonsense.
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Everyone knows that you are Benedict. Stop denying it. You are a bad liar. You always reply to your own comments with different accounts to seemingly make it appear that multiple people are agreeing with you...but its just you basically talking to yourself. Idiot.
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No, I'm really not. Nor am I all those other accounts above. I have seen how you troll and say stupid nonsense in most comments, like pain al.
I figured I can do the same.
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You are lying. Shoo child. PS...It is called PAINAL.
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My real name is Eric. Not benedict. This whole thread was really funny tho, thanks. I'm assuming you or charlie did it. Maybe the same person as well lol.
I can vouch for Flatuoso's statement. Although his writing style is very similar to mine, he is not me. I am encouraged to respond to his comments because I think it creates a more convivial social media experience for everyone. Understandably, friction is created by too much groupthink. To this I say, go masturbate, have a nap, then come back refreshed and ready to be engaged.
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Yeah..I was not talking about you. Unless you have a guilty conscience in which you feel the need to preemptively defend yourself. But I was not insinuating that you and him were the same users. Someone else completely. But now you have made me slightly suspicious of you. Oh well. Shoo..
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...that IS the same guy.
Oh, okay. Well then, who is this user with all the accounts?
A lot of people do that, you included. Very few people on this site make only positive contributions. There's too many trolls and idiots to be worth it.
She isn't disruptive to anyone that is not a troll or complete asshole/moron. What the fuck is wrong with you? She is doing 1,000,000% more troll control than you, you fucking idiot.
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Thanks, but he won't see it.
It seems that she gets off on acting like that.
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Far from it. I simply don't suffer fools or precious people gladly. If you don't like me or that, so be it. We'll both live, presumably.
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I don't think that having a basic sense of respect for people (eg not swearing at them for no reason) makes me a fool or a precious person. Although looking back at my response, I was too harsh, so I apologize to you for that.
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I don't think she was swearing for no reason. I also have a different view of swearing, particularly on a non formal website, but that doesn't make either of us wrong or right.
I don't think you need to apologise, either, but I could have been less bitchy. The whole mess Udi has dropped us all in frustrates me and it was wrong to take it out on a bystander. I'm so used to having to be in defense mode. I wish it wasn't that way.
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Well... I wanted to apologize because you really didn't deserve what I said to you.
And yeah, it's completely understandable how you feel on defense on this site.
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It's nothing. But I appreciate it all the same.
This place isn't your personal playground. Those that wish to have respect, earn that same respect and see it returned.
Remember that and your relations here should improve. Condescension serves no purpose other than alienated people.
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Perhaps you should take your own advice, champ.