Is it normal virgin at 26? i'm scared about sex

31 Comments

I never fingered myself, used a tampon or obviously used a toy due to bad anxiety of it hurting badly !! I am also not fond of dicks, and rather have sex with waman 😆😆
So yah!! I dont think I'll be normal if I hit age 27, 28 even 29 and am a virgin ? I been seeking the right one but I have 0 attraction to any one my age. I tried all dating sites and apps but all trashy and immature looking chicks as well as no attraction and NO I don't want a hook up

Weird 7
Yes normal 13
Normal 15
No not normal 8
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 31 )
  • palehorse
    3 years ago

    If you have anxiety about sex, you should consider seeing a doctor or therapist. It is a real issue, and fairly common.

    Also, if you don't *want* sex, you could just be asexual. That's fine too.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    4
    4
  • RoseIsabella
    3 years ago

    Maybe you're a lesbian, and there's nothing wrong with that.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
      -
    • palehorse
      3 years ago

      Or asexual.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
        -
      • RoseIsabella
        3 years ago

        Maybe.

        Comment Hidden ( show )
        0
        0
          -
        • Anonymous Post Author
          3 years ago

          Yeha I'm on the spectrum but still want sex with the right person

          Comment Hidden ( show )
          1
          1
            -
          • RoseIsabella
            3 years ago

            Right on, I think you should save yourself for someone you love. My first time was with my first love, and he was a virgin too! I'm honestly so glad I waited!

            Comment Hidden ( show )
            0
            0
  • olderdude-xx
    3 years ago

    Someday you will meet someone where things seem natural and he will be caring and gentle... and not bothered by your status or concerns. Then things will change for you.

    Until then, relax and enjoy life...

    It's normal for people to fear what they have not experienced and have concerns on how things will work out.

    I wish you the best,

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
      -
    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      DONT WANT A FUGLY MAN

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
  • bigbudchonga
    3 years ago

    Baby, come have sex with me; I'll turn you into a lesbian for life

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • TheBlindInquisitor
    3 years ago

    It's not a big deal I fucked a woman who was 39 and apprently I was her first. The point is you don't have to rush it or worry about it.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • MrToxic
    3 years ago

    There's nothing wrong with being afraid of sex. Almost everyone worries about being bad their first time and end up panicking. As long as you believe you can maintain your courage to reach that point, I'm sure you'll find yourself lost in the moment of passion :) .

    I noticed your wording "0 attraction to any one my age." Have you tried dating younger/older? It's true that finding the right one is harder these days since almost everyone is either immature, plays for a different team (gay, straight, asexual) or simply wants to live the single life. That said, I have no doubt you'll eventually find someone who's a good fit for you :). As long as you know what you're looking for and aren't tooooooo picky/judgy!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Bazinga
    3 years ago

    You should have started playing with intimate vibrators 7 years ago. Stop procrastinating. www.adameve.com

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
      -
    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Lol cant I lose my v to a toy?

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
        -
      • Bazinga
        3 years ago

        I think you mean
        Can't my v lose its virginity to a toy?
        When really, the wholistic answer is
        How best for my heart and soul to lose virginity with a flourish
        Not a whimper.

        What I am saying is that practice makes perfect.
        Play with yourself. Explore the sensations of your terrain.
        Stay away from your hymen.

        Comment Hidden ( show )
        0
        0
          -
        • Anonymous Post Author
          3 years ago

          How do I stay away from the hymen

          Comment Hidden ( show )
          0
          0
            -
          • Bazinga
            3 years ago

            Well for you, I googled up "Where is the hymen situated" just to see what results I would get. Lots of good stuff out there. I kind of liked the link below. That's because girls start using tampons in junior high school. And, masturbating is all about the clit. You don't have to insert your vibrator, dildo, or the back of your electric toothbrush all the way up to your cervix. Mostly just your clit, labia and the first quarter inch of your vagina is fine. Start playing with yourself right away, you have some catching up to do.

            This link has three answers, a gynecologist answer, a mom answer, and a friend answer. They're all nice answers. Since I am a guy, all I can say is enjoy yourself; vaginas are pretty cool.

            https://www.ubykotex.com/en-us/periods/vaginal-and-reproductive-health/how-do-you-know-your-hymen-is-broken-if-you-have

            Comment Hidden ( show )
            0
            0
  • Fugazi,again
    3 years ago

    Put a balloon in there and inflate it gradually. Do it every day and increase the pressure incrementally. Have a day off on sunday

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • litelander8
    3 years ago

    4 options but only 2 opinions. Lol.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
      -
    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Hehe clever ain't I;)

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      -1
      -1
  • acosta
    3 years ago

    You have to actually want to have sex before you'll enjoy it and therefore pursue it, really it's not normal at 26, most people lose it at 16.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    -2
    -2
      -
    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Yeah well I have anxiety re sex and also haven't found someone I want to have sex with as I wanted a stable loving relationship first which sadly in.this day and age is merely impossible to find. Go figure

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
        -
      • Anonymous Post Author
        3 years ago

        Also age 16 is too young, that's a kid

        Comment Hidden ( show )
        0
        0
          -
        • acosta
          3 years ago

          It's not when you're 16.

          Comment Hidden ( show )
          0
          0
            -
          • Anonymous Post Author
            3 years ago

            It is

            Comment Hidden ( show )
            0
            0
              -
            • Anonymous Post Author
              3 years ago

              That's a kid

              Comment Hidden ( show )
              0
              0