Is it normal to wonder if you're tight or not?...

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I'm a woman, I'm not a virgin but I haven't been with very many people (I'm in my mid-20's and most women I know have been with 50-60+ people, that thought not only scares me, but makes me feel like a nun...regardless) so I'm not sure if the number of partners even makes a difference since I know the Vagina is a muscle, and like a muscle if exercised, maneuvers more like a rubber band, wear it out, it becomes loose, etc but it is a muscle and it can be exercised so if you do crunches, your stomach can remain muscular, and if you do kegels, your vaginal muscles can remain "tight" but I wonder, although I religiously do them, if I am or not, am neurotic for wondering it?

I know frequency is more important than the number of partners like I said before, a woman who's only been with her husband but has sex 5+ times a week and has 4-5 children can be a loosey gosey compared to bar whore who's been with like 70 or 80 guys but they were all one night stands....or?

I don't know...just wondering I guess..
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  • Fish1973m
    8 years ago | pl

    You need to relax and you will naturally lubricate yourself, I suppose a women that has sex all the time will be a lot looser, but you ask any man and they will prefer tight to loose

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    • sheilarae1987
      8 years ago | pl

      Oh, I don't have an issue with lubrication, just wondering what constitutes as tight and is considered loose. I guess it always depends on the mans penis, if he is girthy, a loose one may feel tight, and if he has a pencil dick, a tighter woman/virgin could feel loose.

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      • Fish1973m
        8 years ago | pl

        Does it hurt when you have sex?

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        • sheilarae1987
          8 years ago | pl

          well at first yes, but then after about 5-10 mins its a good-ish pain?

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          • Fish1973m
            8 years ago | pl

            I suppose the bigger the cock the tighter the pussy, I went out with a girl for. 10 years and we was at nearly every night but we still had to use lube as she was tight, better to have a tight 1 than 1 that you just fall in :)

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  • IRonMan78
    8 years ago | pl

    Your vagina is fine the way it is, since your boyfriend evidently enjoys it. I didn't read anywhere in your question that he has mentioned it at all. Relax and enjoy your body!

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  • cocoapeaches
    8 years ago | pl

    God knows he could actually wear on, but he'd kill me if I made such a comment and I am not nearly mean enough to say so. That's good news about the vagina, glad to hear it from a man since you guys are the ones really taking notice!

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  • cocoapeaches
    8 years ago | pl

    I know I am like most women who worry about this; I am in my 20's too and haven't had many partners. Kind of proud of my tight little gal, but I have to know if there's any way to recover from childbirth. Kegels, are those really effective in tightening up? And also, this may sound wildly ignorant, but do your labia minora get longer the more sex you have of it just how women are built, or is it both?

    Been noticing a slight difference since I started sex, but then again I never really worried about what it looked like before.

    Also, any advice on how to get my boyfriend to shut the fuck up about his various, uninformed opinions on how women can tighten their pussies and keep their breasts perky?

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    • sexysonofsam
      8 years ago | pl

      Tell him to fuck off and find some other woman who will like his shit arsed advise!

      If he does not appreciate what he has, he is a moron!

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      • cocoapeaches
        8 years ago | pl

        Not that he doesn't appreciate it but he is constantly giving 'advice' and has really weird expectations such as if I wear a bra for every single moment of the day breasts will NEVER sag and if I just do kegels all the time, it will ALWAYS be tight.

        I hate to break it to him that I won't be 22 forever...

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        • sexysonofsam
          8 years ago | pl

          I concur and nobody wants to be 22 forever! my wife is 44 and still has nice boobs, she sleeps naked as the day she was born as do I. I think your boyfriend should be encouraged to wear a bra for a day to see for himself how "comfortable" these devices are!

          My wife gave birth normally and besides a bit of pouting from the outer labia, her pussy is just as good as it was before!

          Everything depends on how you look after your body, if you become fat and obese then your body will obviously suffer the consequences!

          You should tell your boyfriend to do dick exercises because as true as what I am typing this, his dick is more in danger of failing him than your pussy is of failing you!He has to remember that he needs a hard on to preform, whereas a woman only needs to lie back and take it!

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  • kizjiz
    8 years ago | pl

    You need to relax its fine not sleeping with loads of guys, in fact its a rarity these days and you should be proud. When you have sex next just relax and enjoy him penetrating your little pussy he will love you and it how ever you are

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  • tinahn
    8 years ago | pl

    Vaginas can't get loose, they go back to their previous state after sex. I mean if a vagina can recover from giving birth they sure as hell can recover from a penis. So your vagina is the same size it's been since you finished growing.

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  • seekelp
    8 years ago | pl

    "50-60+ people"

    I feel like you may be off by a factor of ten there.

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