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I am attracted to women and want to have a relationship/marry a woman, but I have a sexual attraction to men. I am in no way gay, and fully identify as straight, but I watch gay porn. Anyone else? Is it just a fetish?
... you're probably bisexual.
Look, I get that people are identifing as anything nowadays, but you can't do that for your sexuality; just embrace what you like.
I think you need to think about your sexuality. I’m bisexual and I went through a lot of self doubt and vacillating before I admitted it. I don’t think your “totally straight” when you say you’re attracted to men.
Man, I really can relate. It's a common problem.
You need to ask yourself a couple questions. First, what are you attracted to, and would you change that if you could?
I've dealt with a porn addiction for several years. It's messed with my brain chemistry. One thing that NOBODY here seems to realize is that the hormones that you produce when you masturbate or have sex cause you to be more attracted to what you're seeing or experiencing right then. So, when I was a teen, the first porn I saw was gay stuff, even though I knew I wanted to eventually marry a woman and start a family. Still do. But I was hooked, and until I tried to quit, my homoerotic tendencies kept getting worse as porn kept feeding it. It's a real monster. It does much more than tweak your orientation though, it also prepares you for completely unrealistic sexual expectations (sexpectations?) that take years to reset.
I'd suggest browsing a bit on YourBrainOnPorn .com