I just replied to you but my reply vanished, so here goes again. I love your neat little lettered paragraphs: I have to stop myself from doing the same thing & don't always succeed:
a) I don't think it's wise to trust anyone completely about everything, but at the other end of the spectrum is loneliness: believe me, I know! I haven't had sex with anyone since I was raped and have no plans to, although I can still have satisfying sex with myself and sometimes over the phone. What happened in your life to cause such total lack of trust in women? You seem a very intelligent caring person, it'd be a shame if you were to be alone for ever.
b) Couldn't have said it better myself
c) Yeah I see what you mean, but I still think it's very uncommon, much more common for a woman who's been enjoying rough sex to be believed when she's raped
d) I think you're spot on here, but I think "misguided" is too weak a term, such people have no empathy and either don't believe a genuine "NO" or don't care. In my case, I had been enjoying rough sex but did not enjoy it against my will, in fact protested loudly and clearly, but was ignored except for verbal abuse that I wasn't responding with pleasure. Yuk yuk yuk ......
e) Thank you my friend, so am I, but even sorrier the rapist is still on the loose doing the same thing to other women, although there's a chance he's about to actually be charged after 40 years of getting away with it.
IIN to want to have rough sex?
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I just replied to you but my reply vanished, so here goes again. I love your neat little lettered paragraphs: I have to stop myself from doing the same thing & don't always succeed:
a) I don't think it's wise to trust anyone completely about everything, but at the other end of the spectrum is loneliness: believe me, I know! I haven't had sex with anyone since I was raped and have no plans to, although I can still have satisfying sex with myself and sometimes over the phone. What happened in your life to cause such total lack of trust in women? You seem a very intelligent caring person, it'd be a shame if you were to be alone for ever.
b) Couldn't have said it better myself
c) Yeah I see what you mean, but I still think it's very uncommon, much more common for a woman who's been enjoying rough sex to be believed when she's raped
d) I think you're spot on here, but I think "misguided" is too weak a term, such people have no empathy and either don't believe a genuine "NO" or don't care. In my case, I had been enjoying rough sex but did not enjoy it against my will, in fact protested loudly and clearly, but was ignored except for verbal abuse that I wasn't responding with pleasure. Yuk yuk yuk ......
e) Thank you my friend, so am I, but even sorrier the rapist is still on the loose doing the same thing to other women, although there's a chance he's about to actually be charged after 40 years of getting away with it.
Happy New Year to you and yours ......