You really need to learn to put your own needs first and say no. It will be hard at first and you may cop shit not only from her but from others, but stand strong and keep reminding yourself that you owe her nothing, in fact it's the other way round with all the things you've done for her. You're just too nice for your own good!
She's using you and she has no respect for you. Practice saying "No, I don't want to do that" and walking away: don't get sucked into explanations or excuses or justifications, just keep repeating that you don't want to do whatever it is she believes she's entitled to from you: she's not.
Good luck! This is a very difficult situation because you're obviously a nice person and it's hard to break a pattern like this, but let's face it, she's not going to change it, it's up to you
IIN to want space from your sister if she acts like this?
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You really need to learn to put your own needs first and say no. It will be hard at first and you may cop shit not only from her but from others, but stand strong and keep reminding yourself that you owe her nothing, in fact it's the other way round with all the things you've done for her. You're just too nice for your own good!
She's using you and she has no respect for you. Practice saying "No, I don't want to do that" and walking away: don't get sucked into explanations or excuses or justifications, just keep repeating that you don't want to do whatever it is she believes she's entitled to from you: she's not.
Good luck! This is a very difficult situation because you're obviously a nice person and it's hard to break a pattern like this, but let's face it, she's not going to change it, it's up to you
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Thanks! I’m not sure why others downvoted you.
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I don't know who downvoted me or why and I don't really care, I do hope you can change this situation with your selfish sister