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As in, just a bit of friendly human warmth. Maybe cuddles. No kissing/touchy-feely/sexual stuff. Like a social bed-sharing rather than a romantic one?
Nothing wrong with that. One of my female friends and I hang out at her house once in a while, she'll make dinner, and we'll lay on the couch, me behind her, arms around her thin waist and hand on her bare tummy, and watch tv. No (or very little) messing around or sex. Just enjoying each other's bodies and company. Sometimes, that's hotter. I love having her all wrapped up and falling asleep.
I agree. This is my opinion; there is nothing wrong with nonsexual cuddling on the couch or in bed between a guy and girl who are just good friends. You can do things like give each other back rubs, scratch each other's backs, cuddle, and even little kisses on the neck or cheek. It can all be very therapeutic and it doesn't have to be sexual, no one needs to take their pants off.
Again, this is my opinion and I have known other people who agree and do just this. However, there are other people I've known where the dude will just start getting way too hard up with all the cuddling, back rub stuff I'm saying and will not be able to keep the snake in the cage. And there are some girls who are the same. It's almost like with alcohol, some people are happy to just have one or two drinks and can easily then stop there and are happy with that. Then others after two drinks, they absolutely must have another, then another, until they're insanely drunk, they can't control it. I'm personally the first one, I'm happy with just the cuddling, back scratching.
I'm not saying the temptation isn't there..It is. Just that my petite, blonde, very hands-on friend, "A" and I get along so well as friends and doing this, that taking it further would ruin everything. We'll walk, even in a parking lot when we go out, arm in arm, very naturally. It's just what we do, very physical. Do I find her beautiful and sexy? Hell, yes. But, no moves made.
She made me a turkey dinner one night, as had one to use. The whole deal, all the fixings, served me over the shoulder like a restaurant. Just a sweet, nice thing for her to do for me. We cleaned up, and, yeah, a little fun hands-on at the sink (my hands were wet, so, I smeared soap all over her exposed tummy), then hit the couch to watch some movie on Showtime. Laid down, me in the back, she in front, wrapped up in each other for hours. Few nibbles here and there, but no sex. She fell asleep on/in me, and I loved it. Had her there, so comfy and safe, shirt up to her boobs and jeans unsnapped from dinner. Not a lot of guys would be able to not jump on her in that presentation.
Get a body pillow! I also recently saw these huge teddy bears at Costco! I was also tempted to buy one myself. Hahaha!
Seriously, I think my cat and I would love a Labradoodle.
fuck that shit, if you cant have sex when you need it find a new bed partner and if your dick isn't working she should find somebody else.
Definitely not normal but I know lots of girls who like this. It's good for me because they invite me because I pretend to be gay. When they fall asleep I get to touch them wherever I want!! It's a win for all!