Is it normal to want sex

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I really want to have sex with my girlfriend but she doesn't want to. She won't even let me masturbate. I've gone months without release and it's driving me insane. My penis is aching for it, if I lie face down on the bed I have a pelvic thrust convulsion. She wants to wait until we're married and she's a virgin but I'm not. She calls me a horn dog whenever I try to talk about it and says if I truly love her I'll wait. She makes me feel disgusted with myself for wanting it so bad.

Is it normal??? Please help

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Based on 92 votes (50 yes)

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Freedom_

9 years ago | pl

Get out while you still can!

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chained_rage

9 years ago

You obviously dont share her beliefs and this situation is clearly frustrating to you.
End the relationship and find somebody who suits you.
I would sure as hell not waste my time with a cold prude like that

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Crusades|

9 years ago | pl

Your girlfriend sounds like one of those cold, dry, wooden board type of girls, who completely lacks passion and desire.
What makes you think she's gonna have sex with you after marriage?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  She said on our wedding night she's going to give me the key to her chastity belt and that I'll have full control.
  
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  - Crusades|
    
    9 years ago | pl
    
    It's a trap LOL
    
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    - GreenPelican
      
      9 years ago
      
      LMAO
      
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      What do you mean?
      
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      - green_boogers
        
        9 years ago
        
        He means she will always create conditions for her sexual aervices. Marry me then I'll fuck you. Buy me a house, then I'll fuck you again. Get me a new car, you'll get laid for a third time. Is this how you want to spend you life?
        
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        9 years ago
        
        I love her. I'll do anything for her as long as she's happy
        
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      - GreenPelican
        
        9 years ago
        
        This is what they mean:
        
        http://img4.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20141202083121/epicrapbattlesofhistory/images/e/e9/Its-a-trap-what-happens-when-advertisers-dont-meet-twitters-spending-quotas.jpg
        
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  - KR80
    
    9 years ago
    
    Loooooooolll
    
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Mytwin295

9 years ago

Does she live with you? Is there a way you can masturbate without her knowing? The old fashioned no sex till marriage thing is stupid but understandable. No masturbation, now thats just crazy!

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  We live together. Her father helped us get a small home.
  
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  - Mytwin295
    
    9 years ago
    
    In that case you're screwed! (ha! no pun intended). Its only natural to want sex or at least masturbation and to deprive someone of that for whatever the reason is just wrong.
    
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eastbeast

9 years ago

Spaff on her face while shes asleep.

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dirtybirdy

9 years ago

Run away. That bitch is cray.

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sillygirl77

9 years ago

Not letting you masturbates is NOT normal.

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thegypsysailor

9 years ago

This one will lead you around by the ring in your nose for the rest of your life. This isn't a girl friend, she's your master, completely in control and that's the way she likes it.
Most guys are pussy whipped because they get sex for doing as their gf's bid. You don't get shit, why do you do as she says?
You are a fucking spineless wimp.

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- TheChakraMantra
  
  9 years ago
  
  So relationships are plainly about sex, and that's it? If a girl doesn't give you sex, then she's worthless? Get your backwards mind out of the 19th century. Women aren't obligated to present their vaginas on a silver platter for you, especially when your only specialty is being a cunt.
  
  I agree that he shouldn't be with someone who has such radically different views on sex, and it isn't normal for her to forbid him from masturbating, but having different views doesn't make someone bad. At least this guy shows some respect for other's beliefs.
  
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  - thegypsysailor
    
    9 years ago
    
    If your best friend and someone who is supposed to love you demands control over your body, then fuck yes it's a sick ass relationship.
    Just where in MY post did I even intimate a relationship is all about sex? I think your reading comprehension skills leave a bit to be desired. Perhaps that's not your fault; maybe English isn't your first language, or maybe you are just a bit slow.
    
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david3565

8 years ago

Not letting you masterbater get out it is normal for virgins to wait for marriage but no beat the meat drug tie rape

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StrahmDude

8 years ago

Her waiting for marriage is not abnormal at all, but she will have to live with you masturbating. Also she doesn't have to know you do it or hear you do it. Just when you leave to do something go off to the side and take care of your needs.

Again: Her not letting you masturbate is NOT normal. Just do it when she is out or something. Seriously. Your body will actually do it in your sleep otherwise. They are called wet dreams and completely normal. Either you do it by hand or in your dreams, it still gets done and is completely normal.

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PleaseDontfindmeIRL

8 years ago

Leave her she's fucking insane

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borntobeme

9 years ago

Run! Run out of her contol now! You are mixing love with lust. Go someplace and jack off, NOW! Before you go nuts, that is if your'e not nuts already.

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Slim-shady-baby

9 years ago

I have always wanted to experiment with a girl ( I am a girl) but I like boys and I don't know if that's normal?!

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213

9 years ago

Keep on jerking off dude, remember that doesn't kill you can only make you stronger

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  She said if I jerk off she's only going to cook vegetarian.
  
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  - Mytwin295
    
    9 years ago
    
    Is that a problem? You get to release sexual tension AND she still cooks for you. I see it as a win win.
    
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  - ginsters101
    
    9 years ago
    
    Do some cooking yourself then
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      I hate cooking
      
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    9 years ago
    
    Lol but daily head will do
    
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Dad

9 years ago

Very old fashioned of her.
The concern is as much as you want to there is the small possibility that she won't be happy with sex with you and therefore getting married to you would be a big mistake, hence old fashioned concept.

As for masturbation restrictions, um what? She obviously doesn't understand the biology of a man.

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