I can honestly say that I do still harbour feelings for him, and he knows that. I don't want to see everyone else in relationships that fail. Im not trying to get any sympathy from anyone, all Im asking is if this is a normal thing that happens to people. I have had 2 chances with him, what it was however that ruined the relationship in the first place was myself since I was in a bad spot with my life and had been hurt before, not wanting to get hurt again. I really do hope they work out, but its like there is a small part of me that wants the relationship to fail so I can get another chance, which he has already said that should it not work out with her, I have first claim on him, so he puts it.
Well, in this case BOTH of you should be honesy enough to ;
a) make him break up with the other girl since he's just using her as a rebound..it is very unrespectful for the girl
b) take some time OFF (both of you) to work out the personal issues that got in the way
c) try again, with a more realistic and mature approach to make it work
OR
d) be honest with yourself, do you love him or you just can't get over your first love (not him, the relationship)?
Because as you,ll get older , you will figure out that sometimes you stick into a situation because you miss the FEELING you got during this time and not the actual partner.
IIN to want other relationships to fail?
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I can honestly say that I do still harbour feelings for him, and he knows that. I don't want to see everyone else in relationships that fail. Im not trying to get any sympathy from anyone, all Im asking is if this is a normal thing that happens to people. I have had 2 chances with him, what it was however that ruined the relationship in the first place was myself since I was in a bad spot with my life and had been hurt before, not wanting to get hurt again. I really do hope they work out, but its like there is a small part of me that wants the relationship to fail so I can get another chance, which he has already said that should it not work out with her, I have first claim on him, so he puts it.
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Well, in this case BOTH of you should be honesy enough to ;
a) make him break up with the other girl since he's just using her as a rebound..it is very unrespectful for the girl
b) take some time OFF (both of you) to work out the personal issues that got in the way
c) try again, with a more realistic and mature approach to make it work
OR
d) be honest with yourself, do you love him or you just can't get over your first love (not him, the relationship)?
Because as you,ll get older , you will figure out that sometimes you stick into a situation because you miss the FEELING you got during this time and not the actual partner.
Hope it helps