Yeah, I think its normal you want their relationship to fail, and honestly, it sounds like its going to. And by the way he goes back to inform you about his relationship with her, how they're doing, whether they're on the rocks or not, makes me believe he still has feelings for you. There is really no doubt about it, he says he loves her, because deep inside he really WANTS to love her, but he actually really loves you. Thats at least what it sounds like to me. He probably thinks by saying it to you, it will convince not only you that he "loves her" but hopefully it will convince him that he "loves her" even though he really doesn't.
I think he might be waiting for you to drop a little hint that you still have feelings for him too. He runs to back to you, and that makes it almost seem like he's just waiting for something to happen between them. He's waiting for it to fall. I think sooner or later the girl is gonna realize how much he runs back to you to tell you stuff, and shes probably gonna get uncomfortable about the relationship you two have, and think somethings going on. She'll call it off.
I don't think its right to get in between two people who are already in a relationship, whether its bumpy or not. But his relationship with her is just not gonna last. Its sad, but its kinda obvious he still wants you. Unless he just really favors your advice, and opinions more. So he runs to you to tell you whats going on in hopes that you could help him out. This is hard, but maybe you should hint that you like him still.(If you do.) See what happens. Or you could say to him that he really doesn't have to tell you every little problem between them because its really none of your business. And see what he says. He might tell you that he tells you all his dirt b/c he really cares about what you think.
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Yeah, I think its normal you want their relationship to fail, and honestly, it sounds like its going to. And by the way he goes back to inform you about his relationship with her, how they're doing, whether they're on the rocks or not, makes me believe he still has feelings for you. There is really no doubt about it, he says he loves her, because deep inside he really WANTS to love her, but he actually really loves you. Thats at least what it sounds like to me. He probably thinks by saying it to you, it will convince not only you that he "loves her" but hopefully it will convince him that he "loves her" even though he really doesn't.
I think he might be waiting for you to drop a little hint that you still have feelings for him too. He runs to back to you, and that makes it almost seem like he's just waiting for something to happen between them. He's waiting for it to fall. I think sooner or later the girl is gonna realize how much he runs back to you to tell you stuff, and shes probably gonna get uncomfortable about the relationship you two have, and think somethings going on. She'll call it off.
I don't think its right to get in between two people who are already in a relationship, whether its bumpy or not. But his relationship with her is just not gonna last. Its sad, but its kinda obvious he still wants you. Unless he just really favors your advice, and opinions more. So he runs to you to tell you whats going on in hopes that you could help him out. This is hard, but maybe you should hint that you like him still.(If you do.) See what happens. Or you could say to him that he really doesn't have to tell you every little problem between them because its really none of your business. And see what he says. He might tell you that he tells you all his dirt b/c he really cares about what you think.