Is it normal to wanna be a whore but wanna be mostly wholesome with my bf?

Your kinda people should just be single and sleep around with anything that moves like you wanna

You should be a whore with your boyfriend. Its kind of messed up to not include him in that.

I guess you gotta ask yourself is being with him worth more than this desire? My bf is totally chill about mg desire to cam. Wich suprises the hell out of me cause hes the jealous type. Try just talking to him maybe hell be ok with it

You're a cheating whore and you should leave him the fuck alone.

I had a friend who introduced her husband to chastity. He apparently wasn’t keen at first, but she lured him in. Sometimes she had him give her lots of orgasms and then told him he was going without and staying locked a bit longer, but overall he worked out he was getting a lot more sex. She would never keep him locked up more than overnight then in the morning she would have him satisfy her a few more times before letting him out for sex. He didn’t realise he was being played until much further down the line as she gradually increased his lock up and her orgasms and sexual satisfaction. Over about 4 years she increased it to the point he was locked virtually all the time. Then she told him she wanted to start seeing other men for sex, if he didn’t object she would let him out for sex twice a week. He apparently agreed but what he never knew at the time was she had been seeing other men nearly all the time anyway. The twice a week let out soon became once a week, then twice a month, then once a month, then less and less. Personally I didn’t approve of what she did, but I had known her since school and she lived in the same street as me. She would come round for a chat on the weekend and give me her latest update. Eventually I broke my friendship with her as I felt it was wrong what she did, but they are still married and as far as I know she still puts it about regularly, he never looks very happy but has stayed with her all these years. I’m telling you all this as I wonder if this is the kind of relationship you might want to end up in. She always looks very happy if I see her in the street. Personally I believe men should be in charge, but in her marriage it’s clearly her calling the shots.

It's fine for you to think like this. Just don't act on it if you are with him.

Tell him how you feel. Its that simple. Yes he can marry you, but if he can understand you its better...there is a guy out there (me) that would love a gurl like you

See if he's down to swing?

This contradiction is more common than you think. I’ve been that way forever.

Do him a favor, and drop him. Then go whore it up, since that's what you really want.

I just find what you just wrote completely disgusting and despicable. Why would you betray your boyfriend like that? Doesn't he mean anything to you?
If you really love him you'll stay loyal and you'll be completely genuine in your love for him and shouldn't have the need to satisfy yourself with other people.
If the desire to be a "whore" (which is a horrible thing to call yourself, by the way, it breaks my heart to see how little respect for yourself you're having), then I'd say that it's your life and your body and as long as you don't go around hurting others then do whatever you please but please, don't hurt other people in the process. Think about the love you have for your boyfriend and if it would actually be worth it to sacrifice the precious blessing that love is in order to enjoy a lot of meaningless sex with a lot of people. Please do consider his feelings.

You are totally normal. You should talk to your BF about things and tell him how you feel. At least 5% of people have consensual non-monogamous arrangements. There are a lot of people out there in open marriages; and it works when you have agreed upon rules and expectations.

If its right for you... then find a man that understands. Just be prepared to allow him the same freedom.

I wish you the best,

So your definition of being a whore is limited to sleeping with other people, but the relationship is a monogamous one? It does not include being kinky in other ways, which you could do with him?

If this is the case, you should probably break up with him soon because it is most likely that you will cheat on him if the opportunity presents itself.

If he is not interested in polygamy and you are not interested in being "his whore", so to speak, it seems to me that neither of your needs will be met by this relationship.

Give it a little bit of time. If time does not diminish these feelings, you should probably break up with him and tell him exactly why you are. It will most likely hurt him, but not as much as what you are likely to do to him instead if you do not.

Kk.

I know some one like this she has a few online flings on the side I don’t recommend tho

The relationship obviously isn’t right and you aren’t getting what you want, either end the relationship so you can fuck other people or just make sure you don’t get caught.