Is it normal to try to find bf hidden facebook or snapchat accounts

Anyone know how to find a person's username for social media accounts without them knowing. I think he has a couple accounts that he uses and keeps hidden from me.
is it normal I would like to find out if he does.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I want to help you, but I cannot condone this. I think you should look for someone else who is actually trustworthy. Spying on another person, and snooping through their stuff will probably bring you nothing, but unhappiness. I'm not saying it's the case, but oftentimes when I suspect something deep in my gut it's usually true. I probably wouldn't snoop, or spy unless I needed to for divorce proceedings.

    If you're not married to this dude it's probably best to just forget about him move on with your life. He will probably never change into what you want him to be.

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    Your relationship sounds doomed if you have to spend time searching for his hidden accounts. Kind of messed up for him to have hidden accounts and also messed up you are going through his stuff.

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    • Mark92

      Why men cant't have their private space? Is it exclusive for women only?

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      • 1WeirdGuy

        Its not just that he got private space its that shes worried about it

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  • bbrown95

    There are a lot of good answers here. If you suspect he may be cheating on you or hiding things from you and find him untrustworthy, it may be time to reevaluate your relationship.

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  • darefu

    Wish I could help, I've been there.

    Years ago before all this social media stuff was so popular. There were signs that a SO was cheating but no real proof. Everytime I said or asked about it they made me feel like the bad person for not trusting. It drove me crazy and yes, you do eventually turned in to kind of a stalker. Not sure it was worth the time and stress, should have trusted my gut and called it quits early.
    I did eventually get the, caught red handed proof, and we had to talk about the elephant in the room. Didn't really help once the trust is gone it's almost impossible to get back especially if the other doesn't put any effort into rebuilding it.

    I did at least leave knowing I wasn't total crazy. Found out later most of the things I suspected were in fact true.

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    • Curiouskitten444

      Sorry to hear that friend

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      • darefu

        Thanks, it was a long time ago but it has probably impacted every relationship since.

        We all carry some baggage and each new relationship pays for the previous experiences. We call it learning. Lol

        My point to the OP go with the guy.

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  • SkullsNRoses

    What makes you think he has hidden accounts?

    There is no reason to hide social media accounts from your partner, if he has them he is using them to flirt, cheat or do illegal stuff. If your suspicion is correct then why would you want to be in a relationship with someone who disrespects your relationship and does stuff behind your back? You should not have to be your boyfriend’s stalker, find someone who behaves.

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    • Mark92

      Yes people have the right to hide their privacy, if it was a man complaining about his girlfriend not letting him see her private social media stuff people would say "he has no right to invade her private space", but if its a woman,"she must be allowed to see whatever her boyfrien has", pathetic double standard! Regardless of their gender, everyone has the right to privacy, relationship is not ownership, its only wrong if the private social media account is being used for cheating, but otherwise people can have their private space!

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      • SkullsNRoses

        I didn’t mention gender as I believe the same rules apply to this situation regardless.

        I do not think that partners should have each others’ passwords or be allowed to read private messages but I stand by my point that if someone feels the need to actively hide an entire account from their partner they are up to no good. If it was harmless they would have no qualms with their partner knowing about it.

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        • Mark92

          Since you put it that way, maybe you are right. A lot of people however do stupid but non-malicious things on the internet that they don't want anyone to link them with in real life (like watching kiddie movies and all, and they are afraid if people catch them at it they will be thought of as immature). But if it is indeed for malicious purposes such as cheating or criminal activity, yeah I agree with you then the partner should leave..

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  • litelander8

    Just make another account under a different name and look for it.

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  • Yaidin

    Have you asked?

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  • Somenormie

    Probably not but instagram it might be possible.

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