Is it normal to think you're going to ruin every friendship or relationship?

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I struggle with groups of people and only have a couple of close friends, but anytime we fight I turn it all on myself and think everyone would be better off without me as a friend. I always think everything is my fault.

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Based on 16 votes (11 yes)
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  • Doesnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    Normal but harmful.

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  • Ichabuskene
    4 years ago

    It definitely sounds like you have some self esteem issues to address.

    That being said, nothing is permanent, and relationships end. If you're as old and jaded as I am, you start to look for the end. Don't submit to a self- fulfilling prophecy and simply enjoy the time you are given.

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago

    No, it's not normal. You have confidence issues that need to be addressed. I'm also seeing signs of social anxiety.

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  • mauzi
    4 years ago

    I feel the same, but more like everyone else ruins it, and it's my fault for trying when I am probably better off without any friends :I

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    Why do you think that you would ruin every friendship, or relationship?

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  • azithromycin
    4 years ago

    Learn to blame things on others.

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