Is it normal to think teen pregnancy is abominable ?

I have this distinctive hatred for teenager's as young as 13-17 having children at their young age. It literally doesn't make any sense to me. The have a A WHOLE life ahead of them, and they choose to waste it by getting knocked up and pregnant. 13 year olds shouldn't even have bfs or gfs. To me that is way too young. You've basically just moved on from being 12 years old and now you want to act like a 21 year old.

Didn't the parents or school teach them about safe sex? If they did learn it at school, and didn't bother to use protection, then they just don't give af. I said what i said.

Females that are still in their teens that get pregnant so soon are filthy whores and men that get them pregnant, are stupid.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Where's the poll?

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  • Mini69

    Why do you find the need to be so offensive about the girls involved. You say the boys/men who get them pregnant are stupid, why can’t you just say the same for the girls? It is a stupid thing to do, but every circumstance is different. As a young girl I had a friend who had a child at 13. She fell pregnant because her uncle raped her, she went through with the pregnancy because her parents were strict catholics and wouldn’t allow her to have an abortion. Despite knowing about the rape, the family covered it up to protect the uncle. She was sent to some catholic institution where she was blamed and shamed for being pregnant. The baby was taken away from her and put up for adoption. She was forced to stay in the institution until she was 18. The girls there were all abused regularly and kept on poor diets. All the girls were given jobs in the home, she had to work as an unpaid cleaner. They were regularly beaten and lived in appalling conditions. Dose all that make her a filthy whore?

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  • SwickDinging

    I wouldn't want my daughters to become pregnant as teenagers, but it isn't the end of the world.

    Why are you so angry about this? Has this happened to your child? If not, I can't imagine why you would care so much.

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    • LloydAsher

      The argument is that its party the parents fault. Good role models, strong family ties, good peer network.

      Not hating on all single parents out there. But empirically a child is better off with two parents. One good parent is better than two crappy ones honestly but still. Single parenthood should not be encouraged if the sake of having a child show off! It's a small person that needs every scrap of nurture they can.

      As a practice it should still be a discouraged one. Not a shunned one.

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    • litelander8

      I feel this.

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  • whynotnow

    I once knew a woman once who said her mother was 12 when she was born.

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  • olderdude-xx

    Historically, most young ladies were married off when they sexually matured, and started having kids typically between ages 13 and 15, with a few earlier or later than that.

    Modern nutrition has pushed the age of sexual maturity down, and modern social values have pushed the normal age for marriage up. However, some young ladies are certainly interested in sex, or do not object to it, and some of them do get pregnant.

    IF the family has adequate emotional and financial support it need not destroy a young ladies future in most western countries.

    I was in Jr High and High School in the very late 1960's and early 1970's and know of 2 cases where the grandparents (the young ladies parents) agreed to raise the child and kept their daughter in school and sent her off to college. I've seen numerous other cases since then. Although I will admit that these are rarer than the cases where a young lady does not have that kind of support.

    In less developed countries, and in the more developed countries where there is not that kind of support - yes it affects a young ladies future. But, they can overcome that if they are willing to and find someone (even years later) who will guide and assist them on how to become successful (and I have provided such guidance and assistance in several cases).

    I will admit that it does destroy the lives of some young ladies. There is nothing in the world that cures all issues.

    I think the biggest question I have for you (and others) is what do you personally do when you see such a case.

    Do you just ignore them and grip about how the young ladies future might be destroyed by this; or do you ask a few question and assist where needed a young lady to get more support and guidance (or tell them about options they have to assist them to live a decent future). In some cases do you personally get involved to provide it? In some cases I personally get involved. What do you do?

    Are we not here on earth to assist other people? Now we cannot assist all (that overwhelms a person to even try). But we can assist 1 or a few each year; and we are free to chose what issue we wish to assist people with. If all of us tried to assist others each year - the world would be a vastly better place.

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  • NickNickNick

    Minors should have bfs/gfs for experience and just general fun. However, I don't think they should be having sex or getting pregnant. It's just irrisponsible on both ends and will ruin both people's lives.

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  • GuvnorsOtherWoman

    I disapprove and that's my first, last and only word on the subject.

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  • a-curious-bunny

    Any pregnancy past 1 child should be punishable by death.

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