Is it normal to think my ex bf is better at sex than my current?

My current boyfriend is pretty dull. I'm a girl that wasn't big on sex until I met my ex. I hardly watched porn either. Anyways, he'd do all of these things with no limitation. One time he put his tongue in my ass. I thought it was gross until I felt a slap of his hand on me and his tongue in me. It gave me a rush. And he knew how to tease all of these places all over my body while penetrating me. I had multiple orgasms. But I had to avoid sex with him because I was becoming a whore. So we broke up, eventually. But my current boyfriend just likes a bj, a slight suck of my boob, and him being on top acting like a show off. Its okay but I don't beg for more. And I snickered one time because he moans more than I do. I hear him brag to his friends while playing Black Ops, saying how good he is. In reality, I only cum if I rub his body. I dated him because he was hot, kinda funny, but he can be pretty lame. He loves attention. We're white but my ex was a black guy I met at my old job at hollister.

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  • A lot of racial comments. I bet they jell of all these black guys fuckin' some hot women..

    This is normal, by the way.

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  • There's this wonderful thing called COMMUNICATION. Tell your bf what you like and what you want in bed. Otherwise, how the hell is he supposed to know?
    That's the adult thing to do.

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  • I'm white, and I've fucked a black chick. Don't knock it till you try it. As for your situation. I'd just tell him straight up. Or, you take it to the next level next time by taking control. He might be a shy dude scared that thinks whatever he's hiding will scare you off. Good luck update soon!

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    • Me too...I did a black dude, but, since I am a dude, I had to be on top of him....there was NO way I was gonna stick that big black club up MY ass!!! And, now that I have done this, no white dude will have ANYTHING to do with me. I am branded for life!!!

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  • If the sex is bad, your 1/2 to blame. Racially stereotypical black guys have been picking up your slack for too long.

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    • black guys are better in bed

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      • That's because they don't have a job...so, they got lots of time on their hands to learn some technique. White guys have JOBS!

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      • guess I can't argue with an expert

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    • Agreed. They really don't even have to work too hard to make the white chicks cum. You stick THAT much pipe in there, she gonna explode. Problem is, she is all stretched out, and, any white dude that does her now isn't even touching the sides. Its a shame. White chicks should leave the BBC to the black girls...I mean, have you seen the booty on some of them, most of them? They are BUILT for that big jungle meat!!!

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  • Not sure i even believe the story. Its pretty rare for white men to take back white women who have dated/fucked black guys. i know i wouldnt touch a girl like that with a 10 foot pole. White women who date black guys tend to be fat, ugly, low self esteem, have trashy tattoos, etc. Although it could be true if the new bf is as low quality as is claimed and the black guy was cleaner and employed (rare). I dont know, its a messed up story. If true, it really speaks more to the low quality of the girl than anything about the guys

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    • All 3 of us are college students, ages 20 (me) and 21. My black boyfriend and I worked at hollister, both as sales workers. He goes to a different school. But when I look at his IG pics, I can see that he's popular and loved by all types of hot chicks at his school, even white ones. I get a bit jealous. And I'm not fat at all, or neither do I have any tattoos. I look like an all American girl. And my black boyfriend was really cute, funny, fit, and smart. He smelled so good. Thats why I dated him. My current boyfriend is popular, white, smells like alcohol and pizza sometimes, and is spoiled. But he's really sweet sometimes. He doesn't know I dated a black guy.

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      • If he worked at Hollister, he is gay as hell! That was why he was soooo damn good in bed! Gay guys do about 98% of the hetero porn. They are good at it, because, in their heads, they know they don't like it, and therefore, it is hard for them to cum, they can last LONG time. Hetero dude gets in their, the chick starts to dig it, pushing back, he shoots his wad in 30 seconds! If you don't believe me, look it up.

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  • You should have mentioned the black guy at the beginning of the post, that way everyone would have come to conclusion you're a monkey fucking whore alot quicker. White women that have sex with monkeys deserve everything that comes along with it.

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  • Your new bf sounds like in closet fag

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    • Like your ex decided to do, after seeing you naked!

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    • One time he sent his friend an ass selfie while he wore a thong but it was his friend girlfriend's phone. It was funny for a moment but pretty gay, lol

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      • Which one did this? Current or Ex??

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        • My current boyfriend. He's very childish and full of testorone around friends but a wuss around me.

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  • Well it's nice to see the clan has computers now and can post on a websites...here I thought they were stuck with burning crosses to sent their messages of hatred...so glad they are evolving.

    Anyway in response to the original message on IIN. So your feelings of unexciting and lame love making my be the product of not being in love with your partner. You might have gotten more excited with your past lover because you were in love with him. Also if you were trying new things then you were probably aroused by the thought of the action as much as you were that action itself.
    Options...
    1. Get with your old boyfriend again.
    Or
    2. Find a new boyfriend.

    Obviously you can't stay with the guy you're with.
    Good luck and remember that you are young and you have time.

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  • you love bbc

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  • OP:

    You a troll?

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  • Normal to think your ex was better at sex. Not normal to leave him for being too good at it.

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  • I like my woman to be a stark in the streets and a wildling in the sheets.

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