Is it normal to think my dad is going to hell

My dad never prays and only cares about money. never hugs me. Only pretends to be nice to the outside world and is a different person inside my house.

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Based on 32 votes (18 yes)
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Comments ( 31 )
  • lonewolf1253

    Your dad is an asshole. Religion has nothing to do with it. I hope you can get out of the situation soon.

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    • insanebotv21

      Try paying him to be nice.

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  • StevenL

    I'm sorry to hear that as well

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  • StevenL

    My dad is making me lose my mind. I hope he dies. I cant take it anymore

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    • Ellenna

      Please get some help from outside your family! AND URGENTLY. Talk to a sympathetic teacher or school counsellor or chaplain.

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  • Bbc4mommy

    Hell doesn't exist go to be child it's late

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  • AntiArchon

    your'e dad's a narcissist or sociopath :C

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  • Maybe-Not-Who-You-Thought

    Look, my dad bothers me about my life choices, religion, even weight, but only because he has to much regret on not spending time with me and my siblings. I get the most of it and the one the usually pick up the pieces, but I know, if I really need him, I can find a father somewhere someday.

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  • Maybe-Not-Who-You-Thought

    Only in the sense that you think he deserves it

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  • WiNkWOnK

    please. get some help.

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  • amg1028

    its normal to think that way but we will never know for sure, only God knows for sure.

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  • StevenL

    I swear to GOD i'll die for my dads sins

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    • RoseIsabella

      Why, what do you mean? You're not responsible for his sins! You don't have to pay for for your father's sins, that's crazy talk!

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  • StevenL

    I'll die for my dads sins.

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    • Maybe-Not-Who-You-Thought

      In what sense??

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  • StevenL

    He is silent. I said things to him I knew would probably land me in Hell. He and the rest of the world can go to heaven. I'll go to HELL alone.

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    • Maybe-Not-Who-You-Thought

      The idea of knowing what you do or did was or is wrong gets you halfway to heaven (or so people say)....and besides ill be there because I know I sin

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  • StevenL

    HE never prays or talks to me

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    • Maybe-Not-Who-You-Thought

      I never see my dad pray and he always is the one to bother me and my siblings about going to church, but when he has a free day he's never there...I'm pretty sure he's not okay with my gay brother, but, in truth, its okay. Because, in my family, were not okay with a lot of things and they're still there.

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  • StevenL

    He makes me think GOD is fake now

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    • RoseIsabella

      God is real, and he knows it's not your fault that your dad is an asshole. You dad is an asshole, because he has free will, and has chosen to be an petty asshole.

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      • Ellenna

        I don't think it's any help to this poor deluded person to validate her/his beliefs in mythical places and deities: OP's brain needs to be turned on not encouraged to remain in a delusional state

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        • RoseIsabella

          You know I disagree, but I think can both agree that OP ain't gonna burn.

          The poor guy's family is probably über dysfunctional, and its a shame that he's blaming himself for his father's bad attitude. I hope it's not as bad as it seems, because he seems to be going back and forth between extremes.

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    • God is fake anyways.

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    • Ellenna

      Well that's the only good thing I can see about your situation. Hell doesn't exist and neither does god

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      • deepdrowning

        That's your belief, and this is his.

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        • Pumpurrnickel

          Yeah, but that's the problem. She doesn't even realize it's her belief. For whatever reason, she deluded herself into thinking it's a proven fact that every religion is completely fake and made up.

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          • Ellenna

            If I could see some "proven facts" that any religion in existence isn't completely fake and made up I might change my mind, but until then I'll rely on reason

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            • Pumpurrnickel

              Funny, because that's actually an unreasonable thing to do. Something that isn't proven doesn't mean it's not true. Yet here you are, commenting how God is fake and Hell isn’t real. Why? Where's the proof it's all made up? You don't even know. Yet you like to pretend it's a fact that it's made up nonetheless.

              What would make you reasonable is if you acknowledge you don't know for sure, instead of randomly spouting things you don't even know. I literally even expected you to make those comments. It's like beliefs somehow offend you. Go participate in your community activism instead of telling randoms on the internet that God isn't real. As if they'll suddenly agree with you and throw away their bible.

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  • nikkiclaire

    I'm sorry your dad is mean. Mine is too.

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