It never started with trying to make him a sissy, I don't even think of him that way. It just started cos I was mad at him with his attitude, I guess I just flipped and told him if he thought the whole housewife thing was an easy cop out he needed to become one for a week, and that meant the whole live as a woman thing, clothes, makeup etc. I even told him I expected him to sit to pee, although I doubt that actually happened, he did start leaving the seat down though, probably to throw me off the scent.
Thing is, once he was dressed this way I liked it, I found it a bit of a turn on. I guess that improved the sex, which in turn improved his attitude. The housework standards improved, I was happier and less tired cos I wasn't working full time then coming home to redo the housework he had done badly. It was like one thing led to another, so then I thought if this works we should keep things this way. I did meet a lot of resistance from him, but once he had proved he could do it, we both knew what standards I expected. When he protested I found withholding sex for a while gradually brought him round to doing things my way.
I dated a woman years ago that had been with men, like manly men exclusively until her boyfriend before me. She liked how he was a lot more willing to do housework and tend to her needs than her previous boyfriends but he was a little...well little in the penis department. So...here comes me. She and I met through a female friend of hers that I had been with and she knew I was trans and on the kinky side so we chatted and decided to have a go of things. She told me what she was after and decided she wanted me in chastity and to be more of a sissy maid than a boyfriend.
I spent quite a bit of time with her and we never once had sex but I think it was probably one of the best relationships like couple wise I had. There was no sexual tension and the few times she wanted me to do things with her I used a strap-on vibrator on her. We mostly hung out like best girl friends and she would have sex with a couple of other guys occasionally and that was always fine. She invited her ex(the less manly one) to use me when he wanted so it was an interesting time. I felt super fulfilled at that point because I was happy to service him and I was more than happy to cook and clean for her. She felt about like you did, she wanted me in dresses and skirts when doing it and had purchased me several maid outfits to do it in.
I think if you're both enjoying things it's perfectly fine to continue down the path you're on honestly. If you like him skirts and he will do it for you, then have at it!
An interesting lifestyle and thanks for your support. Have to say though I don't keep him in chastity, we have a great sex life together and I wouldn't want that to change. I guess I am quite controlling, he only wears what he does at my insitance. It's probably more a case of he's got used to it and accepts it, more than enjoys it. But I really like the way things are and he gets his reward through sexual fulfillment.
Yeah, everyone is different. I don't recommend chastity for everyone...well to anyone at all actually. It was just a part of that time of my life so I include it. I think a lot of the interesting parts about submission and dominance come into play when you consider this statement I heard in the community:
A submissive is free to do what they want, when they want. They can leave if they want or refuse to do something. What makes a submissive submitting to a dominant so incredible is that the submissive chooses to do what is asked of them and chooses to let the dominant make their decisions for them.
If your response is sexual fulfillment then that's how your relationship works, mine worked differently and both are good, just different.
IIN to think men should wear skirts/dresses and do most of the housework
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It never started with trying to make him a sissy, I don't even think of him that way. It just started cos I was mad at him with his attitude, I guess I just flipped and told him if he thought the whole housewife thing was an easy cop out he needed to become one for a week, and that meant the whole live as a woman thing, clothes, makeup etc. I even told him I expected him to sit to pee, although I doubt that actually happened, he did start leaving the seat down though, probably to throw me off the scent.
Thing is, once he was dressed this way I liked it, I found it a bit of a turn on. I guess that improved the sex, which in turn improved his attitude. The housework standards improved, I was happier and less tired cos I wasn't working full time then coming home to redo the housework he had done badly. It was like one thing led to another, so then I thought if this works we should keep things this way. I did meet a lot of resistance from him, but once he had proved he could do it, we both knew what standards I expected. When he protested I found withholding sex for a while gradually brought him round to doing things my way.
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I dated a woman years ago that had been with men, like manly men exclusively until her boyfriend before me. She liked how he was a lot more willing to do housework and tend to her needs than her previous boyfriends but he was a little...well little in the penis department. So...here comes me. She and I met through a female friend of hers that I had been with and she knew I was trans and on the kinky side so we chatted and decided to have a go of things. She told me what she was after and decided she wanted me in chastity and to be more of a sissy maid than a boyfriend.
I spent quite a bit of time with her and we never once had sex but I think it was probably one of the best relationships like couple wise I had. There was no sexual tension and the few times she wanted me to do things with her I used a strap-on vibrator on her. We mostly hung out like best girl friends and she would have sex with a couple of other guys occasionally and that was always fine. She invited her ex(the less manly one) to use me when he wanted so it was an interesting time. I felt super fulfilled at that point because I was happy to service him and I was more than happy to cook and clean for her. She felt about like you did, she wanted me in dresses and skirts when doing it and had purchased me several maid outfits to do it in.
I think if you're both enjoying things it's perfectly fine to continue down the path you're on honestly. If you like him skirts and he will do it for you, then have at it!
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An interesting lifestyle and thanks for your support. Have to say though I don't keep him in chastity, we have a great sex life together and I wouldn't want that to change. I guess I am quite controlling, he only wears what he does at my insitance. It's probably more a case of he's got used to it and accepts it, more than enjoys it. But I really like the way things are and he gets his reward through sexual fulfillment.
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Yeah, everyone is different. I don't recommend chastity for everyone...well to anyone at all actually. It was just a part of that time of my life so I include it. I think a lot of the interesting parts about submission and dominance come into play when you consider this statement I heard in the community:
A submissive is free to do what they want, when they want. They can leave if they want or refuse to do something. What makes a submissive submitting to a dominant so incredible is that the submissive chooses to do what is asked of them and chooses to let the dominant make their decisions for them.
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Sounds fair enough. Thanks for your insight.