Is it normal to think i will be a virgin my whole life?

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Im a guy, and whenever I look in a mirror I feel grossed out, I love women and I find them sexy, and I can always find at least something cute/attractive about every girl or woman I see, even if she is not considered stereotypically "hot" as judged by most guys. The thing is that I'm horny everyday and I want to have sex, but the thought of a woman actually agreeing to have sex with me makes me feel strange, I feel disgusted that any girl or woman would ever lower herself to my level. I know this is not normal but I don't know how to feel about it.

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  • KingTermite
    8 years ago

    If you keep on the way you are you will indeed remain a virgin all of your life, so... yes, normal.

    Perhaps a visit to a prostitute would help break the ice.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Even if a woman was getting paid to have sex with me, I would still end up feeling sorry for her.

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      • TheCockRoach
        8 years ago

        You belong to an online community by the name of "sluthate" it's a website Elliot Rogers frequented before he committed mass murders.

        OP, you'll never get laid you need to go ER.

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      • heckleBucker
        8 years ago

        So so sad. Try the heckleBucker progressive action plan

        1. Get a massage.
        2. Have a whore rub your nuts thru your pants.
        3. Get a hand job at a truck stop.
        4. Get a blow job at a truck stop.
        5. Get several more blow jobs at truck stops.
        6. The big kahuna -> Fly into Las Vegas, go to a whore house in
        Pahrump, NV. Squirt it inside a whore.
        7. Be happy. You are now Tarzan the magnificent.

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      • TheCockRoach
        8 years ago

        With that attitude you'll never get pussy, honestly this is an incontrovertible fact 99.5% if the time.

        What are we going to change in order to get pussy? Our mindset buddy. You are your own worst enemy and don't forget that.

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      • KingTermite
        8 years ago

        I wasn't aware that was part of the problem. I thought we were just ruminating on how to help you shed your virginity.

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  • TheCockRoach
    8 years ago

    The amount of people that replied to this post compared to others is a testament as to how Involuntarily Celibate aka incel INN community is.

    Pretty fucking sad honestly. Fuckers jacking off their lives away it's a crying shame.

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    • heckleBucker
      8 years ago

      Be glad you can jerk. There is one IIN user that can't even get it up to do that.

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  • Short4Words
    8 years ago

    Why do you feel grossed out?

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  • poorpoorbaby
    8 years ago

    Well if you are really that disgusting looking, it sounds completely normal no girl would ever want to have sex with you. Also completely normal that you would question why any girl would.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      well that didn't help at all lol

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  • pantaloonz
    8 years ago

    Dude,

    You're fat and ugly. One of the two is fixable.

    Fix your diet, and get fit, it's going to take a while but you can do it. Every single fat man gets more attractive as he loses weight.

    Top it off with a bit of muscle, get a new haircut, correct any acne/blemishes or teeth/breath issues.

    Voila.. Plenty of Sex that you'll feel good about.

    -Pantz

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  • Koda
    8 years ago

    Why do virgins like to deify women? I find that personally insulting. Also, why would you even want to be with a woman if you believe she'd be shallow enough to be disgusted by the idea of "lowering" herself to your level based only upon physical attractiveness? If all that mattered was looks, we wouldn't have emotion, and you wouldn't "feel" disgust at yourself in the first place.

    You don't think any part of you deserves love? You don't have the human decency to afford yourself admiration? Women are just people. You are EXACTLY on their level. There ARE no levels. Don't let love escape you because you won't allow your self-imposed category to mingle with another one of your self-imposed categories. Are you saying if a woman said she loved you that you'd push her away because she was deluded for not being disgusted by you? That's messed up.

    Sex DOES NOT equal love. Sex is only impulsive, so don't apply logic to it. Each emotion runs in a separate trench in your psyche. Your disgust and your lust shouldn't intersect. Have some self-respect and love yourself. Then you'll be able to view women as earthly and men as just as deserving of love. Your sexual frustration has clearly messed with your mind.

    When you can see everyone as equal and equally deserving, you'll be able to separate your sex drive from your self worth. I know you don't see it now, but you're a beautiful and amazing being just because you're human. If a world existed where you were the only human, you'd be superior. It's a shame you're wasting your life on self pity when you could be EXACTLY what someone needs right now. You're not saving anyone from yourself right now, you're depriving them of the privilege of getting to know you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      thanks for your nice comment, it gave me a lot to think about.

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  • Thunder_Ass
    8 years ago

    Why is sex that important to you? Do you feel as less of a person because you don't have it?

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    • bucho's_butt
      8 years ago

      Thunder ass and butcho's butt. We could be a crime fighting team!

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  • mangohango
    8 years ago

    It's because it's true

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  • anti-hero
    8 years ago

    It's good to dress up like a hot dog and run screaming through a bullhorn "the first wiener is free."

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Sex is a dirty, filthy thing. It is gross, with a sharing of bodily fluids and stuff. You are way better off not to be having it. Stay clean and pure your whole life!

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    • bucho's_butt
      8 years ago

      But I thought the fun of having sex was BECAUSE it's dirty and gross. If OP doesn't want to get dirty couldn't he have sex in the shower?

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  • nobody13
    8 years ago

    I feel like I could've written this. Yes, I've had girls apparently "interested" in me before, but I can't comprehend how anyone could find me attractive. Groucho Marx once said that he wouldn't be a member of any club that would have him; the same principle might apply to some extent in our cases, yes?

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