Is it normal to think i got raped?

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Ok, I've only lied about getting raped once. And it was to my boyfriend. I told him that this (older) guy I went camping with held me down while he fingered me...

This is what really happened, he held me while he fingered me and I did ask him to stop the entire time, and I did try to get away, but not hard at all. And I had been leading him on the whole night.

I wasn't going to tell my boyfriend, but this would be the first thing that I had EVER kept from him in 7 months of dating... So I had to tell him somehow, but I lied too.

Well a whole bunch of mess got started because he texted him saying he was going to rape his daughter (he told him he was 38 years old) and the cops got involved so everyone found out.

I lost that side of the family that I went camping with, they all knew I was lying, but I kept with my story in fear of losing the boyfriend. Although, I don't really mind losing that side of the family because it was my dads side, and I just met my dad this year and i'm 18.

My mom has always said that she's gotten raped by my dad, and my sisters dad... They both claim that she's lying... She's grown up without being loved correctly by her parents, and my stepdad use to physically abuse me before I moved in with my grandparents.

Could this be why we lie about getting raped?
Or do we lie because we are looking for attention?
or both?

my great grandmother spent her entire life in the mental institution because she was insane. And my grandpa is "borderline insane".....

Could me and my mom be somewhat insane?
Or do a lot of girls do this to make people think that they are something special?

yeah, is this normal? ha

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  • dinz
    12 years ago | pl

    Lying that you were raped is illegal. Imagine the consequences to yourself, family, friends and the apparent offender.

    If you were raped for real - would they be like the town folk who didn't bother to listen to the boy who cried wolf?

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  • ohwellidk
    12 years ago | pl

    i posted this, and the title was IIN to lie about getting raped... they changed it?

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  • here2help
    6 years ago | pl

    *If you actually consented to sexual contact and you lied and said it was rape, SHAME ON YOU!!!*
    you being female and having the ultimate say wether or not it was rape, you have a large amount of responsibility to tell the TRUTH. lying about rape is horrendous enough, but lying to stay with a boyfriend is beyond unreasonable and irresponsible. seems to me you are insane just like your mother and grandmother. you dont care about the truth, all you care about are you own interests and agendas, no matter who is punished or for how long. no matter how many lives youve destroyed ALL BECAUSE you wanted to stay with a boyfriend. lying about something as serious as rape is most offensive perhaps to those who were actually victims of rape, who have had it much worse ie who had been raped and murdered.

    So you should ask yourself: "Is my lying about being raped, where someone has to face REAL consequences for something they did NOT do, worth me staying with someone who I may never be with forever? Is it fair to those who are actual victims? is it fair to do this to be "special" or is it instead unreasonable?"

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  • randomjelly
    12 years ago | pl

    If you said no...then what he did was wrong. End of story.

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